I'm 18 and have never been on a date, i have never had a girlfriend etc... I have been told i am a very nice, funny, smart guy and am not ugly or anything. Why cant i get a girl. Im not a loaner or anything or weird in any way i just seem to have no luck. I have been best friends with one girl for 5 years and i love her to pieces but it seems to be a one way street. What is wrong and what can i do?
2007-01-10 06:02:48 · 22 answers · asked by Mr H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you may be lacking is sex appeal. You might need to up your fashion sense. You need to flirt. Smile more, compliment girls, and make them laugh. Have deep conversations with girls. Stand tall and show confidence in yourself. Look girls in the eye when you talk to them. Offer to pay for things.
2007-01-10 06:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by CPDawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. I didn't go on my first date until I was 18. Now, at 21, I still have only ever had one boyfriend, and I'm only the second girlfriend he (now 26 years old) has ever had.
Getting a relationship is VERY tricky business for all but the most experienced. It's hard to give you specific advice without actually knowing you, but I would suggest you not try too hard. Just meet a variety of girls, enjoy yourself in their company, and try not to spend too much time wondering if it's going to go anywhere. Eventually it will just happen.
And I strongly advise against hoping things will work out with your best friend; after 5 years, you know it's not going to happen. Maybe she can give you some tips, though, or introduce you to some of her female friends.
2007-01-10 06:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Halley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irregularity is normal. Not having a period for 2 yrs is not normal. Your doctor does not seem to be taking your concern seriously. Get a new doctor. If you are not seeing a board certified OBGYN I would suggest that, rather than a MD or DO. OBGYN actually specialize in womens health. Look smarty; OB/ GYN is an abbreviation for obstetrician/ gynecologist. An OB/ GYN's job is to screen for certain diseases including cancers of the breasts, cervix, uterus, vagina and surrounding area. Another important part of an OB/ GYN's job is to diagnose and treat female reproductive health issues that include sexually transmitted diseases, menstrual issues, diseases of the breasts, uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries, as well as fertility problems, and premenstrual syndrome and menopause related issues. I have no idea where you got the idea they wont see you if you are not 18 but that is a load of BS. Every woman should make an appointment with their OB/ GYN every year beginning at the age of 21, or within three years of sexual intercourse if under age 21. It's extremely important to return for annual Pap smears and pelvic exams according to individual recommendations by your OB/ GYN. Also, consult your OB/ GYN anytime you experience anything that is not normal for you or if have any questions about your reproductive health.
2016-05-23 05:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the nicest, most interesting and attractive people I know stay single into their 20s. It's not a poor reflection on them--often it just shows that they're selective. Some even choose to stay single because they like it that way.
Apparently, though, you don't want to be single anymore. The best way to start looking for dates is to meet NEW people--I definitely don't reccommend going for your best friend of five years. She likely considers you a friend and nothing more. There are all kinds of awkward issues involved in turning a strong freindship into a relationship.
Instead, I reccommend asking her if she has any cute friends she can set you up with!
2007-01-10 06:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I have a couple of questions for you. You don't have to tell me the answers, but you should answer them for yourself. First, do you ask any girls out? Do you ask too many girls...like you're not selective, and perhaps perceived as desperate? Do you find out their interests first, so you know where to take them? Have you actually asked your friend if she has feelings for you? Or are you just assuming? Perhaps this friend can give you some tips since she probably knows you best.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 06:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up your game!! play the player card, just dont stand around waiting for them,go out and get some!! your 18 you can do that!!
im not telling you to change your personality or anything its great, but at least try to be more of a man then just waiting for some thing to happen!! you have to make it happen!!
2007-01-10 06:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by KizaL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the key thing with dating is, the more girls you ask out the more chance you have of getting a date. It's like looking for a job; the more places you look for a job the better your chances are of getting one. And as long as you keep asking you will get one.
Don't be afraid to ask the same girl at a different time; they may feel differently.
2007-01-10 06:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should change ur look, and belive me u will get a nice girl who love u not ur look.only u have to do is just wait for the right time.and dont become bad by going in clubs and all stupid places.ok .good luck!
2007-01-10 06:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, other girls think that you and your friend are going out with each other. Stop hanging around with her as much so, other girls can see that you are available. If your friend does happen to be interested in you, she will let you know real quick when you start to date other people.
2007-01-10 06:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... If you have a best friend who is a girl... GO ASK HER! Ask her to hook you up with one of her cute single friends. Ask her why SHE thinks you dont have dates. Im sure if she is your friend, she will tell you! Good luck
2007-01-10 06:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋