that's mostly cuz i think too much. We are both 20 by the way
She's had at least one boyfriend b4 (she has a child) and I've never had a girlfriend (my first date ever was with her just after christmas). She gave me her # and said she was "checking me out" I was hesitant cuz this was all new to me. So I texted her with my concerns about her child and my inexperience, and she said that she'd be willing to take things slow and that she "likes me andwants to "be more than friends." We talk on the phone quite often (at least once a day sometimes long sometimes short). She sounds audibaly nervous taliking to me sometimes. We only went out the one time because one of us always seems to be working at night and I have school during the day (not to mention she has a kid to watch). What are some clues to see if she really likes me????? and advice for taking things slow but not too slow???
2007-01-10 05:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you have quite alot here for a first time girlfriend.
First things first. I would not worry about the fact that she already has a child. If you are an open and caring person, you would be surprised at how much you will come to love the child as your own. Clues to whether she likes you, well she did give you her number and flatly tell you she would like to be more than friends. Pretty strong indicators. Now, after you have been out and speaking on the phone some. Does she return your calls? or do you have to call several times before speaknig to her. If she is calling back, she is still interested. One way to tell if this is what you want is all three of you have to go out and spend time together as well. You cant just date her, she comes with a child. All go out to the park and to eat somewhere. Because if you want to be with her, you have to be with the child also. That does not mean you cant go out just the two of you. You need to be a couple aslo. But your gettng an instant family, so that has to work as well. Go over to her place for dinner and help out with taking care of him\her. For her to move forward with you, she is going to want to know that you are part of the child's life to. Just not her.
2007-01-10 06:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Briandking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with her in public places- tourist areas, restaurants, just shopping together, etc. and then you can be around her without putting pressure on her. When she's ready to move on, she'll make other suggestions for things to do together- movies, concerts, theater, etc., but don't do things you're uncomfortable doing. Relationships should be FUN.
2007-01-10 14:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you......Just take it slow and DON'T sleep with her she has one child already and unless you want to be a daddy too I would be cautious at what her intentions are at times.
2007-01-10 14:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of she really likes you she'll trust you with her child...and taking things too slow or slow no1 can tell ud have to just take ur time and see what happenes
2007-01-10 14:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Martariesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u .. just take it slow.. but not slow enough to become only a friend ..youll know when the time is right..your hook-up with her will just flow together ..
2007-01-10 14:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by pivotalperson111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she went out on a date and she told you she would take it slow and then she still talks to you
2007-01-10 13:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋