my boyfriend says he loves me and all. but he is really clingy and he somtimes acusses me of still being in love with my ex lover, but im not, i care for him but he is to way toooo clingy. how do i tell him how i feel without hurting him?
2007-01-10 05:23:34 · 6 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there are many ways express howyou feel letter, poems, songs, and if if really loves you then he would understand and not doubt you
2007-01-10 05:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Cutiepie08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this sounds like the almost exact thing i went before .. he is now my ex but he was so clingy like always wanting to touch me and had to talk to me 24/7 and i mean i liked him but he was a little too obsesive and i had to end it .. he drove me insane! he also did say i was still in love with my ex and i just told him that i will always love my ex even if hes my ex its jsut a different kind of love .. i would try telling him you need space sometimes and when you want to talk to him or hang out , you will tell him .. he should get the hint .. hopefully .. lol hope it ends out good!
2007-01-10 13:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him that he can trust you. that's the base of your problem. he is afraid that you will leave him.
do what you can to make him secure in your love. it took me a year to fully trust my bf and as i did he betrayed it now i have no idea how long i'll be clingy. The thing is i just don't know what else to do.
2007-01-10 13:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need more space not breaking up space but you feel smothered. If that bothers him you need to move on because he is crazy
2007-01-10 13:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down.., though he's probably already sitting there. Tell him that you care for him, but his feelings of insecurity are pushing you away.
2007-01-10 13:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby....you re to clingy......I need some space.
2007-01-10 13:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋