We started having problems and I was ready for it to be over, so we ended both agreeing we needed to see what else is out there. I started seeing this really awsome guy I mean a guy that I have completely connected with. I get this call telling me that my ex can't live without me and only wants me. He even asked me to marry him, that was something I have been wanting for so long from him. Now I am torn either go back to my past or go with a new path. I just can't decide. I have 2 and half years with my ex and I love him, but then there is this new guy who makes me feel like I am flying when I am with him. What do I do?
2007-01-10 05:18:31 · 21 answers · asked by kimray1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you agreed to see what else was out there and now he wants you back after you've moved on...HE IS ONLY DOING THIS BECAUSE HE CANT HAVE YOU. Dont go back... always go forward. Its human nature to always want what we cant have, and now that you are dating someone else, he wants you back. Dont do that to yourself. Good luck
2007-01-10 05:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the exact situation. And only you can really answer yourself. But you have to think that your ex wasnt willing to work out and fight for your differences. Maybe you get with your ex again and for some reason he wants space b/c he is not sure at the moment. DO you risk giving up this new guy b/c of you being so used to your ex of 2 years.
My answer would be NO... I still care about my ex of 7 but i have realized that he would have never let me go if he really cared. BTW me and the "new" are doin great!
2007-01-10 05:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good working old-thing better than a young thing, anytime, anytime.
If you still love your ex. there must be attributes that you both shared which allowed you to remain in love still after 2.5 years.
He knows what he had after you left, it was good, and he want it back. But do you..
Someone once said. It is not who you love but who love you. Since you have two prospects, ask the new guy to marry you and watch the maneuvering. If he say yes you can always change your mind. or! go for it, and have the ex as your lover..
Kidding !!
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2007-01-10 05:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by seeking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people stay together because they have invested so much time with each other.
Wouldn't you rather invest your time with someone you connect with better?
Another thing to consider is that when you first meet someone and you connect, on any level, it always feels like the best thing ever. That will all die out though.
You have to think about what you want and be with the one who gives that to you .
2007-01-10 05:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Torn, Decide which Guy makes your Heart ponder and Who do you see yourself with for the Rest of your life....What is your Heart telling you to do, You already know what your Head is Telling you, But it's an Ol' saying that says Your heart Knows best!
2007-01-10 05:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by kittysweetie19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it relatively is a confusing call. it must be that him and his spouse are dealing with themes and you're giving him what he lacks in his relationship. i understand we gained't help who we like. yet i does no longer have something to do with him till he have been given a divorce. issues could exchange between his spouse and him and which will go away you heartbroken. he's no longer being honest to you or his spouse. Neither of you have become the full him. If she relatively did no longer care approximately him she does no longer be calling to ascertain the place he's. even even with the indisputable fact that her habit seems a sprint tough you on no account understand what he does. There are constantly 2 sides to a narrative. and of direction he ought to no longer inform you approximately what he does he's going to make his spouse look like the monster. Diverts it faraway from himself. Makes you ask your self somewhat, he can no longer tell his spouse that he supposedly needs out yet he can tell his mothers and dads and pals approximately you. relies upon on how he introduces you to.
2016-10-06 23:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First have you guys solved your problems that you had before? then you need to follow your heart and stand firm wit what you truly believe in do you want the moment thing or the history behind how you feel I'm sure you will make the best dicission for your self because your the one who have to live with it go with what your heart feel.
2007-01-10 05:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it jsut means that you realy didn't love your ex as much as you though you did because the new guy you met has created a great spark in your life and you would prefer to be with the new guy thant he ex. I 'd say be honest to the ex and tell him that you ;ve met someone else and moved on and he should too.
2007-01-10 05:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it right for us to decide really because we don't know your entire situation. it's your life and it's not our place 2 to tell you what 2 do. I think you need to take some time out and assess the situation your in, Clear your head and don't make a rash decision, think about what you really want!
2007-01-10 05:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your having a connection with this new guy your dating,just stick with him,and tell your ex,that you met someone,and want to move on with him.I know he might be heartbroken,but if he treated you wrong,he just have to get over it.I know it won't be easy I been there sweetie,and know how you feel,but he has to move on.
2007-01-10 05:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋