Right before Christmas my boyfriend broke up with me saying he does not love me anymore - as I was 1/2 moved out he came to me wanting another chance - says he does not know why he did that and that he does love me. The problem is - not only does this affect me but also my 1 yr old boy. I am in my own place now and we have decided to go to counseling - am I wasting my time? What made him act out like that in the first place?
2007-01-10 05:17:39 · 6 answers · asked by janderliz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONESTLY. YES you are wasting your time. It sounds like he could have been cheating on you maybe or maybe he got interested in another girl thats why he probably said that. Then he came back wanting a second chance because that girl that he was probably talking him doesnt want him. Leave that one alone. You have your OWN place now and you have a son you need to focus on and take care of.
2007-01-10 05:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're wasting your time. If he's willing to go to counseloring then he's showing you that he's trying to make it work. I would keep separate residence though until everything is worked out.
I don't know why he acted the way he did. I could say something negative about his reactions but I could be wrong and I don't want to assume anything. Take is for what it is now and try to make it work. If it doesn't work out , atleast both of you tried.
2007-01-10 13:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of i cant say if you love him then give him another chance because you have a one yr old and his feelings are involved too. take your time and take it slow. dont rush right back into the relationship. protect your heart including your childs. thats what matters the most. and if he cant respect you wanting to take it slow after throwing you out right before christmas. then he's so not worth the time
2007-01-10 13:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that he was involved with another woman and thought it would be better with her? and then possibly came to his senses? This is the only thing that I can think of to explain this. Just remember your son comes first and he needs a stable life so make sure he is serious and honest about what happened before you take him back.
2007-01-10 13:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he tried to make a fling with another woman a more... permenant situation? If so, and he blew his chances with her... of course he'd come back. I would be careful if I were you... Best of luck, and all my love for you and your 1yr old boy...
A real man would treat you with respect.
2007-01-10 13:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by just nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give one chance to straighten up but after that if it repeats or just fuucks up again and you stay with him then your on your own.
2007-01-10 13:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by I need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋