im a teen and i've been through some tough times wen it comes to boys and my heart. and i always used to say 'i love him' and 'he's the one'. but everytime i crashed back to reality. S i jus wanna no wat u think. Are we REALLI too young to know wat love is?
2007-01-10 05:08:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it really depends on what they think love means....i wouldn't know bc i have always been single...and my definition is it is something realllllllllllllllllllllllllllly big............................like it can't end bc u didn't go swimming or something dumb like that. i have to go but hope this helps a little
2007-01-10 05:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Hilary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really good question, and there is no easy answer. I would say, "Yes and No." Yes, teens are old enough to know what love is... at least, they are as much as most adults are. Many adults do not know what it really is, so why would you necessarily? That said, many teens find love and works out for them. So I do not think age has anything to do with it. The real issue is maturity. When you are mature enough to understand the complexities of love, then you are old enough. What age you are when that happens is going to vary from person to person. For a few it might be in the teens. Another person might be 20 or 30 or even 80 and still not know squat about love. Just know this: it is natural to go through what you are going through. Enjoy each experience for what it is, and learn from the mistakes you make. Take good care of yourself, be good to others, and then you'll be fine. Good luck!
2007-01-10 13:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean and feel. I've been in the same situation many times myself, and my heart's been broken too. It hurts, and takes a very long time to overcome. It's hard when you deeply feel inside that you think he's the one and yet you seem to be blinded by the reality of it all. I'm not saying love can't happen, because it can. Sometime, you'll know it's right, you'll feel something different that you never felt with any of the other guys. You'll find the one, trust me.
2007-01-10 13:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think its too young. The first time I felt I was in love with someone I was 12. Since then I can honestly say Ive loved 3 more guys since then. Its how you feel about the person, whether you could see you living your life with the person, and your trust with the person I think is important
2007-01-10 13:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... when u r a teen sometimes u feel like this. But with the time u will understand that it was not love actually but just obcession. It's so weird and wonderful to see how u point of view on love and life changes with the years.
2007-01-10 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its too young, but I do think that the way people feel/percieve love changes as we get older. The type of love people have in their teens isn't likely to last their entire life (but it can amd has happened). An adult loves in a more mature manner, but you have to go through the lessons of teen love to get to that place.
2007-01-10 13:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thing that we are. But then again i can't say that because i'm in love with someone. And what i'm only 14.. Yeah i know. Its hard. I wish taht there wasn't love but like at the same time i'm glad there is because it feels good when someone tells you the best words ever. I love you. Just be careful though . Don't let boys use you. And don't let them hurt you. Make sure that they are being serious. And don't take you for granted. Worship your love.
2007-01-10 13:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the persons' definition of love. Everyones definition is different. however (and I'm a teen myself and have been through things) from each relationship youve been in you learn something new and it helps you get a stronger hold and build up YOUR definition of love
2007-01-10 13:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Nunu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. I would say it depends on how old and mature you are. 13 vs 19? Some 15 and 16 yr olds are much more mature than a lot of 20 yr olds.
2007-01-10 13:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by KrazyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think there's an age limit when it comes to love.I believe that you didn't handle with your relationships right so you were the one that got hurt in the end.I strongly recommend you not to rush saying I love you unless it really comes from the depths of your heart!.!Best Wishes!
2007-01-10 13:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋