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i've known him my whole life and he knows what i feel for him, maybe he doesn't know that i love him so much but he knows that i love him, and i knows that he feels something for me cause he shows it. But i wish he could love me the way i do (i'm sure he doesn't). please help me!!! thanks for all of you who answer this question

2007-01-10 05:07:27 · 17 answers · asked by Lucky Charm 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

play hard to get with him and he well come around. i know because im going through it right know i have loved this guy for 4 years. and i stop jumping the gun for him and he is strating to call, and hang out wit me. it takes time my dear.

2007-01-11 14:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by roxy 1 · 0 0

I know you don't want to hear this but you can't. Someone either loves you or they don't.

Feelings aren't set in concrete and can change but what I suggest is that you cherish what you do have with him... a friendship (I couldn't grasp from what you said whether he is your boyfriend or whether he is simply a friend, so I', presuming the latter)

If you push things then he may back off completely. If you try and change it then you may loose him. Once certain boundaries have been crossed, it's often impossible to go back. Tread with caution...... I say this because you seem pretty sure how he feels about you

I know you won't want to hear that but I think you need to be aware of the risk involved. Are you prepared to run the risk of ruining what you have? If you declare your undying love, it can't be undeclared. People often say, 'let's forget it ever happened' when it comes to unrequited love, but the reality is that most people can't or find it exceedingly difficult.

Good luck.

xxxx

2007-01-10 13:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by kate_wizzbomb 2 · 0 0

you cant make someone love you its sometimes a one-way streak and no matter how you wish for him too say those three little words he may never say them
us girls love with our whole hearts and souls we give our whole self to a guy the guy on the other hand not all of them I hope love with the thing between their legs us girls are able to say how we feel and know how we feel a lot quicker and easier than most guys only time will tell how this guy feels about you if he loves you he'll treat you tidy with respect and shower you with gifts and never makes you feel unwanted and unloved he does love you but in his own way he may not be able to say it but only show you how much just take each day as they come and see how things are one day he may just tell you he loves you or he may not but if its working right now don't push him too tell you or you may push him away from you and loose him

2007-01-10 13:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by AARONLEE AND SASHA 3 · 0 0

For the love of god, girl! you must be 15-tops. Instead of focusing on this boy, you should focus on developing enough self esteem and confidence to believe that whoever you are dating should easily be nuts over you. Feeling adored by someone you are equally fond of should not require a strategy meeting. It's not work, it's simple chemistry. Either it's there or it's not, but you can't FORCE someone to fall head over heels for you.

2007-01-10 13:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Im sorry, I dont think you can make anyone love you, love is when they see your insides and love you for everything you are. Believe me, id be a much happier person if i could make a guy i really care about love me. You will just wear yourself out trying, like i am.

2007-01-10 13:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0 0

If he does not love you by now then I do not think that he will love you the way you want him to, keep him as a Friend and move on

2007-01-10 14:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0 0

if you know that this guy feels something for you and that you love him, you should tell me how you feel about him. you can't make a guy fall in love with you but you won't know whether he really feels the same unless you tell him how you feel.

i hope that helps you

2007-01-10 13:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Darren M 1 · 2 0

You can't make someone fall in love with you, if its meant to be, it'll happen. Sometimes these things take time, or maybe he really isn't the one for you.

2007-01-10 13:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Leggy_Babe 2 · 0 0

just run a little test. you never know he might be thinking the same thing. he might love you a lot but has something holding him back or just does not know how to show it.

2007-01-10 20:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by shawna 2 · 0 0

Tell him you are going to be married to someone else, see if he will feel the pain or not. if he only congratulate you then he doesn't love you at all. then you can move on.

2007-01-10 14:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0 0

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