Is it wrong for a guy to be married and for him to talk to girls (strangers) online??
What about exchanging pics??? Interested???? :)
2007-01-10 05:03:45 · 21 answers · asked by Long Island GQ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't know, nor will she.
2007-01-10 05:08:23 · update #1
I send nice pics. of myself and they love me
2007-01-10 05:10:55 · update #2
I married and I have done that. He does not know either. It's just something to pass the time at work.
2007-01-10 05:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? It depends on the couple and how they feel about it.
For example, my husband talks to a few girls online, platonically, that he knows from online games he plays/played. But, out of respect for me (and because he loves me more than he cares about them), he really only talks to them when I am there. I'm a very jealous person--but so is he--so we match really well! ; )
If he were exchanging pictures with a woman online--well, I'd probably give him a choice--he can keep the pictures--or he can keep me. I'm not saying I would divorce him over pictures--just that there is no reason for him to want pictures of other women (especially lewd ones, as it seems you are implying) as our sex life is wonderful, and completely satisfying--so if he feels like he needs something else, then there's obviously something we need to work out.
Anyways...in answer to your REAL question...you, personally, get off the computer, go back to yoru wife, have some really good sex--and don't ask women on the internet for pictures. Or else just leave your wife and be done with it.
Don't be an a$$hole and try to have both.
2007-01-10 13:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea you got problems. You better nip it in the bud right now. I'm all for Cheating On Your Girlfriend and Not Getting Caught, but when you start down that road, which you are, that's poor judgement. women don't take things like exchanging pics online lightly, because it usually leads to exchanging bodily fluids.
You should have done this before you got married. You keep messin around with this she'll take half you sh*t.
2007-01-10 13:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong but shady I would say. Usually people indulge in chatting when they don't have better things to do. A married man's situation is definitely different. And the pics-exchange part is objectionable too.
2007-01-10 13:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by skepty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to interact with women outside of your marriage, there are deeper issues you need to deal with. It sounds to me as though you are developmentally immature and in desperate need of attention.
It is not fair to your wife taking time away from her/your relationship to spend it chatting with strangers when you could be working on things with her. If you truly don't want to be with your wife, you need to admit that and get out so you can both move on.
2007-01-10 13:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is harmless at the beinging, but I have had some friends that were married that ended up leaving there husband/wife for someone else that they met online. If you truly love your wife you won't do it.
2007-01-10 13:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lissa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a little too immature to be married. Yes it is wrong. Don't you have work to do?
2007-01-10 13:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong..if that is all you are doing..but it's best not to do that..i'm sure your wife wouldn't really like that...it's better to keep your wife happy than to talk to other ladies online..why? because she is your wife..and i'm sure she loves you very much :)
2007-01-10 13:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong it's call cheating. u don't have to sex with others to call it cheat, just being on the phone, on line talking crazy to someone else other than wife.
2007-01-10 13:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is online only and dose not take time from your wife. It's okay.
2007-01-10 13:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mobilewiseguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋