my exhusband which i have 2 children with is in iraq and i havent heard from in about 4 months.he usually calls the kids once a month or atleast emails me or writes.and he always calls on xmas.so im trying to find out whats going on .i called the red cross and they wont help me.they said i have to get a hold of 1 of his family members .i dont know where any of his family lives.he has a wife that last i knew she lived in nc but i cant find her number either i called information and looked on the computer.my son is very worried about his father and he keeps telling me everyday he must be dead.what should i do?
2007-01-10 04:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by kahlien05 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
more than likely he is ok. I would think someone would be able to tell you something since his children ARE his family members. If your son is having a hard time of this maybe you should consider a therapist for him
2007-01-10 04:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by NeonLoveChicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely the Red Cross should be able to help you locate him, perhaps the person didn't fully understand the situation. You need to speak to someone else at the Red Cross. Your children are his family members and if they are minors you are acting on their behalf.
2007-01-10 13:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that your children's father is okay. Surely there is someway to speak to a rep from the service in which your ex is enlisted and explain the situation to them. If nothing else, they might be able to pass along a message to his noted next of kin to get in touch with you. On a more positive outlook of it, more than likely he is safe, because I am sure that someone from the military would have contacted you knowing that he has children with you if the worse would have happened.
2007-01-10 12:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Son can contact the Red Cross.
2007-01-10 12:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the Red Cross with your son. If he is a minor, take his birth certificate to prove he is next of kin to your x. They will have to help you then.
2007-01-10 13:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by gigglings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what unit he is in, you could call them and ask for the family support group. They should be able to steer you in the right direction.
2007-01-10 13:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by John H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't your son one of his family members? Get him to call.
2007-01-10 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably got stationed somewhere where he doesn't have the access to call home.
2007-01-10 12:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something were to have happened to him Your children would have been notified as they are still his dependants..
2007-01-10 15:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by mpwife_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with there government for any help and explain to them,,
2007-01-13 18:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by jerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋