420 parents, How do you handle your habit with your children?

Question

How have you decided to handle your habit around your children? Do you keep it hidden or do it out in the open? Is it working for you?

Answer 1

I hid it from them.They weren't stupid as to what I was doing.I thought about doing it in front of them,but thought about what kind of example as a parent would that be.So actually,I stopped all together and it was the best thing.I now have energy to play with them and actually remember what we played.Try it striaght,you won't regret it.Mom of 6

Answer 2

Whatever you decide..you better be prepared to deal with the backlash and the idea of what to do when they start smoking pot and say that thay learned it from you.
Marijuana is such a controversial subject. My parents were very open with it...and I handled it very well. But all kids are different. I was taught about all of the positive things that it is used for and later learned of it's medical benefits. But, kids have enough to worry about these days and it really does suck to go to school and listen to the DARE officer and know that your parents do it....but you have to keep it a secret.
As far as your smoking it and the physical contact with your children...don't do it. They certainly dont need to be inhaling it, and they really shouldn't be seeing you do it either. Different things work for all different people....but because it is still considered an illegal drug (which I disagree with..it shouldn't be illegal but should have some regulations) I would keep it hidden. No point in exposing your child to something that they will learn is illegal. makes a kid feel ashamed....and dishonest.

Answer 3

I think if it's a habbit that you're trying to keep from your children, then it's probably a good sign that you should try to refrain from doing it. Whatever the habbit may be (I'm assuming it's not a good one), doing it out in the open is only showing them that it's okay for them to soon do it someday. It's like giving them permission because you are the role model and you're showing them that it's okay. If you chose to keep it hidden, you run the risk of your child catching you and you may possibly lose some sort of respect from him or her. You can chose whether you want to continue this habbit, but if you do so, it'd be admirable if you and your family together worked on distinguishing it.

Answer 4

Why don't you just sit them down and say "Son/daughter mommy and/or daddy love you but somehow drugs are more important to us than you. We love getting high and if the child protective services show up then that's just too bad. If we get arrested, that's not our fault we don't make the laws and we don't follow them" Then you might as well tell them drugs are ok and they should try them. Because that is the example you are setting. They see you do it, they'll do it. Grow up and get off the pot. Don't you want to be the best parent you can be? Or is laying around in a drugged stupor more important?

Once you had children you should have gave up the drugs. I don't expect to get best answer for this and I really don't care. You are being selfish. You had these kids, protect them now and set an example for them. That's your job.

Answer 5

Don't lie to them, but if they don't know, keep it on the down low. Don't raise a prohibitionist. They will, if you raise them correctly, probably probably start doing it sometime between 15 and 19. When they do it's probably a good idea to come clean with them.

Set a good example by just smoking on weekends in the evening etc.

I'm only 18 myself... but just my 2 cents.

Answer 6

The human body was born with a edge We spend billions of dollars a year to cut.Prescription medicines,alcohol etc.You actually get along better with your kids.But you need to keep it hid from children.They will not make it legal because it would hurt the pharmaceutical and medical industry. Peace

Answer 7

I personally don't smoke, but know people and family who do.

most jsut do it when the kids aren't home. or outside (backyard) or in an area where they are seperated (basement).

I think its better to do it while the kids aren't home. but if its done away from the kids and in moderation while they are home, its not too bad. same for drinking.

I know my cousin smoke. I was a bit annoyed when they did it while their baby was in her room and they were in the living room. they should have smoked outside to keep it away from her

Answer 8

ive always smoked away from my kid . as shes gotten older ive discussed weed with her . shes anti drug anti drinking . weve discussed the pros and cons of weed . commom cortesy to her i dont smoke it till after shes asleep and never in the house. i have friends who smoke in front of thier kids and i just dont think its right . i havent had a drink in almost 7 yrs but i do need a little herbal prozac now and then

Answer 9

listen i don't want to preach but please just quit. a night away from the kids is great ,but you are responsible for you children so remember these words "risk of injury to a minor".
even an infant can sense that mommy is high.

Answer 10

I would hope parents smoke away from the kids....420 or cigs !!