i slept with my sis b/Friend and he is 21 I'm 15years old i think I'm pregnant how do i tell her and him

Question

my sis is going to never going to went to talk to me again

Answer 1

Your sister never talking to you again is something you should have thought of before sleeping with her boyfriend. That should be the least of your problems as a 21 year old sleeping with a 15 year old is statutory rape in most states. You need to talk to your parents about what has happened and have you tested to see if you are pregnant.

Answer 2

I guess you already no that you did your sister wrong. Besides you are just 15 and that 21 year can be accuse of statutory rape. Since its is legal to have intercourse with anyone under age 18. I would try taking a pregnancy test (home) and then go to the doctor for another pregnancy test to make sure that I'm pregnant or not. I hope that you are not. If you are not pregnant, I would not ever tell my sister how I betrayed her. This is something you take to the grade. Now if you are pregnant, then you will need to tell your parents and her preferably at the same time. In any case take the pregnancy test before you jump off and tell anyone. And if everything works out in your favor, please stay away from your sister's boyfriend. Thank you.

Answer 3

Well you are really too young to be having sex, and it is obvious that you are immature. How could you sleep with your sisters boyfriend first of all, thats something you never do, and to make the situation worse he is 21. Not only have you messed up your relationship with your sister, you also ruined there relationship, and by telling he is going to jail. Now he knew better than to have sex with a 15 year old. But the blame is really on you, because men do stuff like that. You are doing adult things and is no where near being an adult. And you think you might be pregnant!! You are bringing a child into this earth and you are clearly still a child yourself. Now there is going to be another child without a daddy, and a mother who is just a few years older then they are, it is just a f****** up situation if you ask me.

Answer 4

first of all....what are you doing sleeping with your sister's man? u obviously have no respect for yourself let alone for your sister. if u are planning to go on with this pregnancy, it is all in due time dat everyone will find out...and because of your bad actions and your sis will be estranged for a while. blood is thiker than water so i'm sure some time in da future ur sis will for give u (i don't know about forget...she'll probably not trust u) this is something u bought for urself.....and the fuken guy is a looser...because he obviously didn't respect your sis...and was dumb enough to sleep with u...u R only 15...u became an easy little tramp...u probably did it for attention, and look at yourself now....the part of your life that is supposed to be the best times of your life now down the drain...chek urself girl, and your self-esteem....u got issues girl.......

Answer 5

First of all your sister's friend's a perv!

Second of all, your sister's friend can get arrested for statory rape.

I would say, try to tell your parents first. Most likely your parents will be disappointed, but if you know they won't do something drastic like kick you out the house then maybe you should tell them first. Then tell your sister.

Or...

You can get your sister and your sister's friend in the family room together and explain the whole thing. Or say something like, "Before I start, I would like to say, please let me say everything I need to say before you get mad at me..."

I don't know. This is just my thought. I've never been in this situation. In the meantime, get tested for pregnancy and STDs. From what I hear you do not need to be with a parent to get these test, so if U don't feel comfortable doing this with your mom I guess you could get a friend w/ a car or someone who can give you a ride to go with you.

Once again, I've never been in this perdiciment before.

Answer 6

Hello

Yea I think you can expect allot of sh*t for that little oops!!!

But you first need to find out if you are pregnant and if this guy is having sex with multiple partners pregnancy isn't your only worry I'd be having the doctor check for sexually transmitted diseases as well.

You need to tell your sister and your parents just what kind of guy this is.And yes you were not thinking clearly to have sex with him in the first place but it takes two to tango as they say. As no 21 year old should be having sex with someone 15. And any guy who is low enough to sleep with his girlfriends underage sister isn't worth having around!!!

This isn't going to be an easy thing for you to do but you'll have to do and might as well get it over with as the worry and anxiety of waiting will only make it worse.

Best of luck to you.
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Answer 7

Your main concern should be to tell your parents and/or guardians. They care more about you than anyone else in this world, and after they get over their initial shock (angry outburst or whatever) they will take the necessary steps to help you. Don't wait--this is not going to go away. Betraying your sister is the least of your concerns (unfortunately). TELL YOUR PARENTS ASAP.

Answer 8

Well, you will have to bite the bullet and tell them. if you don't then i am sure they are going to find out down the road. By then it will be a lot tougher. Another thing is that your sister's boyfriend can be charged for sleeping with a minor. i hope that helpled.

Answer 9

well first of all you should find out if your pregnant. if u tell your sister that you are preg. and it comes out that you arent. things between you two will be worse than it could be.. first of all tell the guy that you think you are pregnant. later when u find out if you are or arent you should tell your sister. sit her down and make sure the guy is there also so that she wont take all her anger out on you. .. good luck

Answer 10

For one thing he sounds like an idiot for putting himself in that situation with an underage person. And yeah, I would bet your sister wont talk to you for a long time if ever again.