If they don't know each other why not date both, just be careful and take them to diffrerent places
2007-01-10 04:18:32
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answered by Anonymous
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UhOh! You've gotten yourself into a hard spot! From here on out, dating two or more people at the same time will never get easier on you and will only get harder and more complicated so choose wisely and weigh ALL your options! If you like them both the same maybe you should tell each of them you are not ready for anything serious and want to continue a friendship only. (keep it a friendship too, not one with benefits!) This way you can still hang out with both of girls and get to know them for thier true selves as well as meet thier friends and family to see who you fit with better. If you choose to have two girlfriends at once, the sky will eventually come tumbling down on you and you will turn out to be an a$$hole in some form or another whether you had those intentions or not. Giving things more time to figure out may not help at all either. You may end up liking each of them equally for complete different qualities and then be torn between the two. Trust me, you are best off just having them as friends even if there is more chemistry between you with them. Its not worth all the pain it could become. If this evolves to a relationship, you could end up losing them both if they find out about eachother. Is it worth the risk? Weigh your options with who is more realistic to be with you in your long term future. Who is most realistic for you? If you arent ready for marriage, then why have a relationship anyway? Think about it hard and carefully so you dont turn into the A$$hole and also so you dont lose them both.
2007-01-10 12:30:21
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answered by jessBcuz 2
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lucky but not to lucky because you have to pick between both of them go on a date with both of them at the same time and ask your self which one you like better then tell the two about how you feel at the end of the date if they are pretty cool girls they will understand because they know that some day they will have a chance with you later but if you are playing these two girls then don't do my plan then
2007-01-10 12:22:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Questions for u is, are u dating them or u want to make it more. I suggest u date them until u know urself, however if u are sleeping with them u need to choose one! Dont u tell both u love them and dont lead them on to thinking there the only one. Treat them as friends untill u know who u want more if any
2007-01-10 12:20:51
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answered by Hi my name is... 3
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Option #1, you can choose to have open relationship dating and continue to date both. Option #2, make out a list of pros and cons for each of them and see i that helps you make up your mind.
2007-01-10 12:19:55
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answered by rosemarie13694 1
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You never know what is going to happen, it's not a video game. The best you can do is tell them your true feelings and what you want from the relationship and let them handle it however they want to.
You might be able to keep them as friends, maybe it will turn nasty, but at least your honest with them and yourself, and that would be the most honorable and they will know you for that.
2007-01-10 12:24:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Sumbit them to an application process...
Bottom line is this... it's your choice... so you don't have to rush into anything...
If they've both expressed feelings for you, but you have none for either of them... then you don't have to do anything...
If you do like them both... then, figure out which one is more like you, more capable of having fun... going out, seeing friends... the works... Find out what their friends are like, who they hang out with...
Make an informed choice... then you'll be happy because you won't regret not choosing the other girl...
Good luck, man!
2007-01-10 12:21:53
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answered by just nate 4
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Try to figure out which one you like more than the other, if that's the case at all, before telling either of them you'll be exclusive.
Other than that, I have no suggestions, since I've been in the same situation before, more than once, and still haven't figured out anything better...
2007-01-10 12:19:51
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answered by emily_brown18 6
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Tell them both about each other and your quandary. The one who is mature enough to deal with it like an adult and not kick you to the curb immediately is probably the one to keep.
Depending upon your ages and relationship skills, however, be prepared for both of them to give you walking papers.
2007-01-10 12:20:17
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answered by honeynubbin 4
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Date the one that you like and tell the other one that you just want to be friends.
2007-01-10 12:19:16
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answered by Anonymous
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It partly depends on your ages and the personalities of those involved. If you are teenagers then I advise keeping both relationships as casual as possible, and not getting into too serious a relationship with one girl.
2007-01-10 12:20:52
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answered by Clown Knows 7
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