2007-01-10 04:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cant have feelings for every girl he sees, that's insane, tell him to shut up the next time he says it!
2007-01-10 04:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably aren't many girls out there that haven't had to endure this ego trip played out by a significant other. I've dated guys that have flirted w/the waitress or was more interested in checking out the girl seated at the booth behind us than paying attention to me. Guys have a short attention span and bore easily. Once a guy starts checking out other girls in your presence and making it obvious that he thinks they're hot, it's a sure sign that he's lost interest. It's the ultimate way to disrespect the girl they're with. I often wonder if it's the coward's way out to ensure the girl breaks up w/them...and then they get to pretend they're a nice guy that didn't break up w/you instead. So, it doesn't sound like your boyfriend wants to remain your boyfriend much longer. You have the option of losing interest in him as well and playing all the tricks you know on him, e.g. not including him in your plans, not inviting him to a friend's house you plan to visit, too busy to make plans, etc. He's a jerk and probably isn't likely to change, so I suggest you go into 'self protection' mode and not let this guy hurt you any further. You are strong enough to handle it and you need to value yourself more than anyone else (and any relationship). Good Luck
2007-01-10 12:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn to him at the same time he says it and ask what kind of feelings he has for you?
Why is he with you if he is making statements like this
Thats mean.
I wonder if you would turn the table and tell him what you feel about the next guy that crosses your path.
Let him know, that it doesn't feel good to you and you don't like it.
that might change his manner in the way that he talks and respects your feelings as well.
have you ever told him that it hurts you?
Wishing you good luck on this
2007-01-10 12:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! Simple as that!
It is ok for him to look but not to feel!
If you can't bring your self to dump him then you need to have a chat with him and come up with some kind of compromise! If that doesn't work then bop him up side the head to give him something else to feel! lol!
2007-01-10 12:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that it hurts your feelilngs and you want him to knock it off. Sure, he may pass it off as just wanting to be honest with you but that kind of thing is NOT good for you or your self esteem. If he doesn't respect you enough to stop then he's clearly not worth your time.
2007-01-10 12:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him.He is sadistic and egoistic!
He doesn't care if you get hurt!That means you are not important to him at all!A boyfriend should treat a woman with respect and devotion,as if she's the only woman existing!
2007-01-10 12:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is another abuser. Loves to put women down. My dear they only get worse with age. Dump the loonie. Do not try to explain it to him. He will try to convince you how foolish you are to think that way and yada yada
2007-01-10 12:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him....theres this one desperate guy asking questions in polls and answers ...soudns like a winner for you
2007-01-10 12:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he doesn't deserve you and is probably doing this to make you break up with him. find someone who has feelings for you.
2007-01-10 12:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
warn him, have intercourse with him----a crazy one so he will never forget
2007-01-10 12:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by kyriacos d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋