Me and my boy friend well ex boyfriend broke up last week. He called me a dirt whore and dumped me. I was pissed and got really upset and now I look back at it and wonder if there is any guy on this planet that can really love a gurl like me!
2007-01-10 04:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry you feel this way and have been so hurt. Of course there is, not all men are intentionally hurtful and they are all human and therefore all make mistakes. I have been married to my husband for 5 years and known him for about 8 years and he still unintentionally hurts my feelings ever now and then, though now more rarely. It's never on pupose, it's just that we are all fallible, I know that I have hurt his feelings unintentionally, too. It goes both ways. It s our love for one another and trust in each other that helps us get over those hurdles when they come. I am guessing you are still pretty young, so don't get jaded just yet, the right man is out there for everyone. Hope this helps.
2007-01-10 04:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by lvminole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not you dearheart, it's him. Sounds like he's a spoiled, immature brat. He's throwing a hissy fit cause he didn't get what he wanted.
And you must never, NEVER, N-E-V-E-R think that you are not worth loving.
Yes, there are guys out there that would rather die than hurt the lady he loves. They're a rare breed nowadays, but they are out there. You just have to find the one for you.
Eleanor Roosevelt once said "No one can ever make you feel inferior without your consent." You are a wonderful person and don't let anyone tell you differently.
2007-01-10 04:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by 4XTrader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not defined by the opinion of your ex-boyfriend. While you are hurt because of this it does not mean there is any thing wrong with you.
There are millions of guys out there looking for the right girl just as there are millions of you looking for them.
And while it is true there are a lot of guys not worthy to say your name there are just as many who could love you and care deeply for you. So don't give up on us guys just because of what one jerk said. Most guys don't do what he did unless you hurt him somehow so next time make sure that doesn't happen and you will be fine.
2007-01-10 04:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, did you do something to him? i don't call women names but hey i will be the first to admit women drive me up a freaking wall sometimes. and don't lumb all guys in with the few who may have hurt you. i mean it's possible there's no guy out there for you, it may be a woman who knows, what i know is that most men are decent human beings and we get tired of being generalized as pigs by so many women, after a while we figure if we're going to be in trouble for it anyway might as well have the fun of actually doing it. cut guys some slack, the dating world isn't easy for anybody even though it should be.
2007-01-10 04:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer all adult men are like that. basically those who are not worth your time. do not let all of us allow you to comprehend who're, who you may be, and how you may experience. you're literally not searching for a figure; you're searching for a guy. and that is the real answer. adult men do not take care of you that way; boys do. Age has no longer some thing to do with it; recognize does. yet basically keep in options the way you're feeling as we communicate and use that as know-how contained in the destiny. sometime you'll see this dippy boy. he will be overweight, spending his waking hours taking section in x-container in his figure's basement. you'd be hotter than Georgia asphault and strolling down the line consisting of your hunky guy. he will keep in options you. yet will you keep in options him? No way.
2016-12-28 15:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by anavitate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do exist, I promise. But here is where maturity is an issue...not saying you should go date insanely older guys but you will find as you get older this sort of nonsense diminishes. This guy doesn't sound legit from the start so maybe you could take his actions as a lesson towards what not to get involved with next time. Just try to be more cautious about who you choose to be with.
2007-01-10 04:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are and don't let anyone tell you know.;
proceed with caution and don't jump for the first jerk that says I think I love you. Take your time don't rush into a relationship and above all make sure he is right for you.
they are out there, so go seek and find..
2007-01-10 04:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that your idea of a guy, a person who just wanna hurt a girl? Well, i´m a guy and I can think of much more than hurting a girl.. There are other things, more fun to do like ******* and **** and ****....
2007-01-10 04:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to find them i am 22 single live in houston texas you can try me and see but any way good guys like me are hard to find
2007-01-10 04:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are guys that you are looking for.Dont give up girl.boys come and go but your real love stays 4 eva
2007-01-10 04:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by amber s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋