his name is brent, i have never met him befour but we have been texting for a year in a half... he's sent pictures of him to me , and i sent pictures of me 2 him. he lives about 30 minutes away from me and we never hade time to meet.. itz gottin to a piont where i cant stop thinkin about him, and all these guys will ask me out and i'll say no to them cuz i'm saving my self for brent... but brent goes out and will have sex with differnt girls, and will tell me and that will like crush me... and last night i called him, and we talked 4 like 5 minutes and then he had to go... but when we hung up, i like started to burst out and cry for no reason... i love him!!!! but do u think im obssed???
2007-01-10 04:08:41 · 14 answers · asked by g00d_kiss3r_1992 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's a little more complicated than that. you need to tell him that yall really need to meet and that if he respects you and your feelings that he should stop going out and sleeping with girls if he doesn't want you to do that to him. first things first you should meet and start a relationship.
2007-01-10 04:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this is good at all. You should find someone else. If he is sleeping with different girls, for one thing he doesnt feel the same way you do. So its better not to start a relationship based on that. And if you only live 30 minutes away and never have met there must be a reason for that.
2007-01-10 12:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not obsessed. But this guy Brent must see you as just a "buddy". Otherwise, why haven't you met in a year and a half when you only live 30 minutes apart??
2007-01-10 12:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're nuts, to be honest. How can you "love" someone you never met? And, you only live 1/2 hour apart, but haven't made time to meet up? And how did you start txting each other? And he is obviously not devoted to you-I think he thinks of you as a friend if he's telling you about his sexual exploits.
Forget this cyber stuff-there is nothing like an ACTUAL real-life friendship and relationship.
2007-01-10 12:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is possible to meet somebody you have never met. You do not know what he is like in person, he might sound like a lovely guy over the phone, but he could be the complete opposite when you actually get to know him. I think it is just a crush and maybe you would be better off going out with one of those other boys trhat have asked you....
2007-01-10 12:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth I am in the same thing. But I don't feel that ur obssed I think that u actually may be wasting your time though. If he will brag about who he screwed and have to go so he can go F*** some one then forget him I know it is hard to do but sweet heart there is more fish in the sea and He might be the fish u want but there is better!
2007-01-10 12:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by skatergirl3722 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are obsessed. I advise you to start dating with other guys too but before you can ask Bert for a date or sth like that. If you go out with him and you are still so amazed by him then you must do everything to make him fall in love with you.
I'm not so sure if you are really in love with him or with the ideal image he had constructed. Be carefull distant-relations can be really tricky! Good luck.
2007-01-10 12:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only 30 minutes away,why don't you try to meet? Ask him if he feels the same way,and maybe you can begin a real relationship.
2007-01-10 12:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by ConfusedHMD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think ur are infactuated with him...u can like him alot but i dont think ur in love. Especially since he sleeps around with girls and tells u....u are jealous which makes him more appealing, im sure u can find someone who wouldnt throw who he sleeps with in ur face. Try to save ur self for someone who wants u and only u. Good Luck!!
2007-01-10 12:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest... ur not obbessed
u just found a person that you can go to to talk to u
u feel comfortable with him
but do u really think when he tells u about sex with other guys it doesnt bother you
think about it
it may be love
but u may love 4 the wrong reason
2007-01-10 12:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Not Knowing What To Do 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋