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ive got a lad whos 23mths old and a little girl whos 9mths old. i've found that my son doesnt like giving me cuddles and doesnt actually give me any kind of affection.

my little girl on the other hand wont leave me alone. she follows me around everywhere crying, she always wants carrying and picking up (although im quite strict about how many times i pick her up because of this problem) she cling onto my pants and shes even learned to climb the stairs on her own so she can follow me.

I know its very cute and lovely that she wants my affection but its getting really annoying. I dont pick her up when she wants to, although i dont neglect her. I never had this problem with my son. Is it because girls are more clingy than boys or has she got some sort of behaviour problem? i know shes only 9mths old but i think its this time i should be firm so she doesnt get too clingy in the future.

2007-01-10 03:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

7 answers

Your son is in a different developmental stage than your daughter. Evidently, she is not getting enough from you. I know you don't want her spoiled, but its not enough to satisfy her need. Its the stage where she is right now.

I have two sons. 6 and 1. My one yr old whines for my attention sometimes. He wants to be held, cuddled and kissed. Other times he doesn't have me to think about.

Try having the two kids play together more (supervise them). This may lessen her "clingyness" to you.

2007-01-10 04:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Its not gender that does this is parenting adults tend to show more affection to baby girls than boys there is no evidence y it just happens but as a result the baby can become clingy this can happen to boys aswell esp if the boy is an only child,if your little girls wants attention like wanting to play then play with her but if she starts crying or throws a paddy for attention just ignore it she will eventually realise she cant have your attention all the time try giving her activities she can do by herself so she can learn how to entertain herself,as for your little boy its common as boys get older they dont like cuddles as much as girls except when there hurt or ill.hope this helps p.s try spending one on one with your son like reading or watching a dvd this might help you and your son become a little closer as he might feel he might aswell not bother as his sister is quite dominant.hope this helps.xx

2007-01-10 11:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by deliciousde 4 · 1 0

I don't really think that girls are more clingy then boys are. I just think it's how they're brought up. Maybe your son didn't act so clingy because he was the only child, and maybe your daughter does act a little more clingy because she has to share the attention time with her brother.

2007-01-10 04:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by hasgr8boyz 3 · 0 0

females often are because they are often better insecure than adult males. i imagine clingy-ness is a huge signal of lack of self belief. I really were very clingy contained in the previous, yet not a lot now. my ex Alex stuck to me like a barnacle on a deliver although. i could not flow out with acquaintances without him coming alongside, i had to delete my Myspace because he changed into conscious there have been some captivating adult males on my acquaintances record etc, it changed into ridiculous

2016-12-02 02:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by lemanski 4 · 0 0

It isn't a girl v. boy issue. Parents tend to show girls more affection, so they are therefore more clingy. I've known plenty of boys who are clingy. My son is! It all depends on their upbringing. You could be doing it and not even realizing you treated them differently.

2007-01-10 03:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by shaldyr 2 · 0 0

Girls just desire attention and love more then boys do even as they get older. Girls don't mind being hugged or kissed on as for boys they'd rather do other stuff and hear that you love them and as long as you don't hug or kiss on them they are ok but if you do then they'll pull away but that doesn't mean that they don't like it or don't love you that's just how boys are. At least that's what I think.

2007-01-10 03:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0 0

they aren't it comes down to each child not boy or girl or may be its the way you treat them

2007-01-10 23:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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