i got this friend that i love talking to. we talking to become a couple. he calls me his baby and i smile everytime we talk but then sometime he changes and try to get mad and yell at me and this happen a couple of times. should i still talk to him i already told him what he be doing and he said he going to change but i dont know
2007-01-10 03:02:03 · 12 answers · asked by ringthealarm_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not even a couple yet and he is already yelling at you, this is a bad sign. You can talk to him but I would cancel any relationship plans you may have been having. It doesn't sound like it would be a great match.
2007-01-10 03:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by rachel_ksr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really like him a lot, keep him, be patience with him. If he hasn't change his attitude, tell him the truth that you can't just stay that longer. He might hurt you soon or later. Tell him that you are scared to get hurt, it will wake him up. If hes worth to you, do something! If he doesn't, move on, find other guy that treat you good by 24/7. Hope this helps you a bit. Good luck,
2007-01-10 11:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him go to couples' counseling with you. They will help both of you learn how to communicate with one another. Maybe he just doesn't know how to deal with frustration or anger. A counselor will help you both identify what the real problems are. If he is unwilling to go, then he is unwilling to change. Then I would dump him and move on with your life before you really get hurt. Sometimes a lack of anger control can escalate into violence. If he is unwilling to get professional help, then get out while you still can! Good luck!
2007-01-10 11:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you guys really are good friends, then you should give it a try for a relationship. But, if things start to get violent, get a restraining order against him. But, if he's not a violent person, then he obviously has a stress problem, so talk to him about that, what's bothering him, and ask questions concerning him.
2007-01-10 11:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by So_Seductive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him! if you get into a relationship with him then he's probably gonna keep on yelling on you! so just go make another really good guy friend to make him really jealous! guys hate it when they like you and your talking to another guy! but make sure that you don't use that guy that your trying to make your friend jealous at!
2007-01-10 11:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a moody guy. You deal with his mood swings because he calls you baby? People that like you don't want to yell at you.
Lose that loser. Who needs that crap?
2007-01-10 11:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing that crap early in your relationship then you need to rethink your relationship with him. People don't start showing their true colors till like 6-8 months later. Be careful!
2007-01-10 11:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. Sounds like he is hiding his true nature with sweet words and stuff.
Be careful with anything like this
2007-01-10 11:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't like him for who he is you need to just stop talking to him.
2007-01-10 11:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now dear its on you , as you love him than you should have the capacity to change him.and i belive that love can change people....... so BEST OF LUCK.
be in touch with him ......
2007-01-10 11:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋