Took a girl out a couple months ago. We had a good time but i kind of blew it a little bit by being too much of a nice guy. Although i am nice, i do have kind of a bad side which i know she likes but for some reason i get nervous around hot girls and act like a wuss around them. I actually ended up running into her and am going out with her again tomorrow. We havent really talked since last time i brought her out. Is there a chance that if i play it cool she will forget about the first date and become interested in me again. Was just wondering girls if you give guys second chances or its one and done. Shes the kind of girl that knows shes hot and other guys know it too. Normally i would give up on her but I had fun when i was with her and is more interesting than a lot of other girls. So any advice would help if you think i got a shot or how i should play this date off. Thanks!
2007-01-10 03:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Italian Tiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To guage her interest to you guys, the first time i took her out i called her a couple times the week after but she never called me back, only texted me saying she had been swamped with school and she was sorry she didnt call. Never did then. But when i saw her out she was excited to see me and when i asked her out again she said of course. So she is kind of tuff to figure out
2007-01-10 03:06:35 · update #1
You have to biatch-slap the wuss out of you. Learn the cocky and funny style of David DeAngelo. Since shes hot and shw knows it, pretend you re not interested in her and that you dont think shes so hot. teast her, treat her like your lil sister. She ll love that.
2007-01-10 03:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will never forget the first date. No woman ever does. However, if she agreed to go out with you again then she must have liked something you did. I wouldn't worry so much about it. What is going on in your head is not the same as what is going on in hers. We like to have fun and laugh. If a guy can do that and still be a gentleman, then we are in heaven. You might want to rethink the "bad boy" thing. You will find that most woman who understand how "hot" they are, also understands you can be replaced rather quickly. Make yourself unique. Offer something that no other guy has offered her before. You would be surprised how little it takes to please us. Don't forget to hold eye contact when talking. This is very important. Have fun and stop overthinking about the date. Just relax and be yourself. Everything else will fall into place. Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-01-10 03:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a young female, I would say that if you are yourself on the date, she should be interested unless she is really shallow. If she is shallow, you have to seriously consider why you would want to go out with her in the first place. Play it cool, let her get to know the real you and if she likes you, she will want to go out again. My guess is if the first date bothered her at all she would not have agreed to go out again so you probably have a chance.
2007-01-10 03:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think she would have said yes to going out with you again if she wasn't at least a little bit interested in you. Just try to be yourself, and you will get the result you want.
2007-01-10 03:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by balooney2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 00:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just be yourself and if she dosen't like you for who you are then just forget about her! on the date you just need to take a deep breath and breathe everything is going to be okay! if she's going on a second date with you then she obviously like you!
2007-01-10 03:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she wasn't slightly intrested in you she would have rejected the second date... just be yourself have a good time and see where it goes from there
Good luck.. :)
2007-01-10 03:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi
if you are into her - keep phoning her!!!
don't worry what every body else is up to. What do you want?
Good Luck!
2007-01-10 03:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that you get nervous around hot girls she will be flattered
2007-01-10 03:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she said yes for a 2nd date then you've got your answer
2007-01-10 03:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋