If you come from an eastern religous background then you are up shitcreek without a paddle! move out of home but not into his home you both need to look for a new place together, trust me on this point, as he may want rule the roost so to speak.!! if your religions are different then i suggest a little white lie to your family to say he is changing religion to yours. teach him the basics to get by ya family i hope all goes well for you
you can choose your friends but unfortunately you can't choose your family
omg 25 years old get the hell out of there if your family loves you they will respect your decision
just one more thing my sister inlaw is married to a complete dud none of us like him either but we are leaving the desicion up to her as we respect her choices as should your family you are only here on this planet once for a short time you have to make it the best you can with what you have live life to its fullest potential
IF YOU NEVER GO YOU WILL NEVER KNOW ALL THE BEST!
2007-01-10 03:15:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Dear at the age of 25 you should have been out, why are they treating you like a child? You are a grown woman, do you have a job or anyway to help your boyfriend? Or does he make enough for you both? I would at least move in for a little while and see how things went, you are getting married anyway right? That is what i would do after all you are a grown up capable of making your own decissions. Just tell you family what your plans are. Or if you think they will hold you against you will, don't tell them just move out. Good luck
2007-01-10 03:06:15
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answered by sweetemtation_123 4
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First. Find out why your family doesn't like him. If it's a legitimate reason then you shouldn't hesitate to leave your bf.
Secondly. You prolly don't want to feel like you've wasted time with your bf after 2 years, but I guarantee you that if he hits you or is abusive to you in any form or manner, it's best to get out now, rather going on for another 5 years wasting more time. You are only 25 and have plenty of time meet someone who will respect and love you forevermore.
Thirdly. It's always good to make sure your family likes your potential spouse for the simple fact that they will be the ones to help you when times get hard.
I hope you understand what I am trying to say and come to your own conclusion about what to do.
2007-01-10 03:06:52
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answered by LoLo B 2
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I don't know your parents or their reasoning for wanting you to call it off with your bf, so first you should talk to them about this, if you haven't already. It makes life a lot easier when parents support your relationship and your impending marriage. You really should be out of the house by now at 25 but don't rush into his arms either unless that is really what you want. You will be married soon enough and this will all be over. If you can wait that long then just stick it out until the vows.
2007-01-10 03:07:03
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answered by vonhartleben 2
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ok im only 17 but im in the same position (besides the getting married part lol)...you are 25, an adult, do what you feel is right. your family should support you in whatever decision you make as long as you are happy. If they don't then i think that you should just move in with your boyfriend and hopefully your family will realize how they are treating you is wrong. Your going to have to move out at some point so you mind as well just do it. My mom was trying to get me and my boyfriend broken up and i was put on lockdown for a looonnngg time!! but my mom realized that no matter what i'm still going to out with him and she realized that how she was treating me was wrong. then we sat down and had a long talk about it. Hopefully, your family will do the same. Good Luck!
2007-01-10 03:06:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I think his families assessment of a pathological liar is correct, and after six years with him I'm sure you can confirm that also. I seriously doubt this other woman doesn't mean anything to him. Why would he keep in contact with her if she doesn't mean anything to him? He's a liar, and a very immature one too. I have doubts that will change. You seem to be a sensible, caring person. You've given your partner more than his fair share of chances to get his act together, and you're getting lies and cheating in return. You deserve more than you're receiving in this relationship....and so do the children. You have two choices #1 Continue in the relationship, which has no chance of ever becoming a happy positive environment for you or your children. #2 Terminate the relationship, and sever all ties with him, only allowing contact for child support and visitation. Your only 36 years old ( just a baby yet! kidding) there is plenty of time to find Mr. Right and get treated with the love, happiness and respect you deserve. You will be an even more loving, affection Mother when your treated that way, and your children deserve that, do it for them to. Good Luck God Bless
2016-05-23 04:09:51
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answered by Anonymous
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My first thing is you are 25 and the fact that you are living under your parents roof it does give them the right to instate rules. I think that when it is your life and you are a grown adult you should do what you think is best for you. I got married at 21 and my family was against it so were all my friends. We have been married for 6+ years now and my family loves my husband. It is your life not your parents do what you know is best for you. Keep in mind your parents love you and want to make sure you do not make a mistake.
2007-01-10 03:03:25
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answered by peeps 4
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Your family has known you your whole life. You are still living with them. It doesn't sound like you're ready to live on your own. You need to be able to live on your own (not with your boyfriend or any guy) for at least a few years before you commit to living with a guy. Why? So that you know you can take care of yourself if something goes wrong, and you're not stuck in a bad relationship. Trust your family on this one. If they are supporting you, then you must follow their wishes because they love you and your best interests at heart. After you've lived out on your own a few years, and can support yourself, then look for a guy to marry.
2007-01-10 03:03:54
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answered by Mrs. Strain 5
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You are a 25 year old adult but you are letting people treat you like a child. It is time to be on your own. You should try living in your own place before you live with your BF. Try being independent and take care of yourself.
2007-01-10 03:03:44
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answered by notyou311 7
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Your 25 your of age you can do whatever you want. Its your relationship and your family really doesn't have any say in the matter. I think you should move out of your parents house and move in with your boyfriend. If your parents get mad or if they say that they'll disown you they'll eventually get over it.
2007-01-10 03:07:29
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answered by valerie_lynn82 2
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