My boyfriend of 2 and a half years. acts like he doesn't care about me anymore. we don't go anywhere together, and if we do we have to have his friends with us. and also there is this girl that likes to sleep around a lot, and likes to break relationships up. well she had surgery done and the other night at 2am she asked my bf to take her pain meds,, he did,, but he never told me about it.. I found out from someone eles and when I confronted him he was like yeah i did and I was only there for like 30 sec. but when I ask him even to come up and visit me to spend time with me. then he can't.. but yet when i say he is acting like he wants out of the relationship he says that he doesn't.. he still loves me, and if he didn't want to be with me then he wouldn't be.. idk what to do anymore. I cry myself to sleep cause of the way things are anymore. I love him to death but a person can take so much..
2007-01-10 02:56:36 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick that * ?, no seriously, that other girl is interfering and planting seeds in the garden. he's a bit confused and conflicted about it probably isn't really sure why he's doing it. look, we all lust after the girls who are loose and break up other people's relationships, it's a fantasy that we all have. but it's a game that you can't win, if you're crying about it, then you already know it and you pretty much know what type of situation you're in. two and a half years is enough, but you may want to let him go and see what happens. he'll come back around once he realizes that it isn't all that it appears to be.
2007-01-10 03:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like you already had a talk with him... what he did its not cool as we knw , and you have to let him know & i don't mean by confronting & tellin him wut he did was ... or that is wrong i mean tell him that you are feeling insecure & that you are having some conflicts and you need him2 help you and to clarify things up or things eventually are not going to wrk out. tell him that if he really care for me & wnt2 b with me then all i ask is for you to help me with this emotional problem. u telling him he did wrong is not clearing things for him because N the first place he feels he didn't do n E thing wrng but he did bcuz its hurting u. u has got to put a stop on it or this is going worst! be strong really be strong.. my best suggest would be stop askin 2 see him give him sometime alone & i promise that he really does luv u he will *** bck2 his 5 sences . i don't mean 4 u 2 do wut he does but 2 dettached from him for a lil while.. don't say its ok to wutever u don't like jus or don't fight over it just show ur upset by it.. if he starts complaining and u can't both of you's make a conpromise than its true there s only so much u can do. by all means sometime4 a reason this is going to be a brake up and only but its going to be a biach to move on. you think about it u lose him for a while or forever.....
2007-01-10 03:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by gina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through this situation at some point in your life. You need to leave him alone, I know this sounds impossible, but you can. You will be sad for a week or so but you are already so it won't be much difference. You have to put yourself first before anyone else will. Good luck and remember that he may have broke your heart but you will break many others.
2007-01-10 03:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by ???EM???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 and a half years, he should have married you. He is afraid of commitment and the relationship is ending. Sorry.
2007-01-10 03:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life find a another guy that will take care of you and well that is nice to you and that will always be there for you know matter what happens
2007-01-10 03:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by blacksabbath200000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words: MOVE ON. He obviously doesnot give a u kn what bout u anymore, and is using you.
2007-01-10 03:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sultan Cartman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋