Ok, my ex-boyfriend, say X broke up with me, but not to my face. He asked my bestest best friend to do it for him. He wishes to stay just friends and I thought that would be ok until I saw him bein' 'sweet' on another girl right after my best friend told me he wanted to be just friends. I'd like to stay friends, but after he cheated on me, and we had already broke up once, but I took him back (I always give second chances) but then he broke up with me again for another girl! Should I stay friends with this guy or should I call him a chicken s*&% and never talk to him again and make his life a living h ell for what he did to me? I've already been through this before with a different guy, and I'm getting tired of it, cause I let them have their space, but I still spend time with them, I basically do what they ask, but don't let them boss me around all the time. Please help me!
2007-01-10 02:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were really good friends, and I never thought of him as that type of guy. He's kind of the charmer until he has you, then he's more of an a ssho le
2007-01-10 04:01:55 · update #1
no you shouldnt say mad at him but dont trust him ne more i wouldnt
2007-01-10 03:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Xtina12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go with your instinct and call him a CHICKEN SHITT AND DON'T TALK TO HIM AGAIN... nothing is more frustrating that some asss hole playing mind games with someone.. it's just the worst type of person to deal with... and at the end they get the best of you and never once consider your fellings for nothing.
I think you know you deserve better than him... take sometime to tell him you know what?? unlike you I am capable of making my mind about somebody and stay the hell away from them and that is just what Im doing with you BYEEEEEEEEEEEE DUMBASS.. AND NEVER GO BACK ON YOUR WORD.. SO HE SEE THAT YOU HAVE MORE BALLLSS THAN HIM... get somebody who likes you enough not to want to play with your feelings is my advice.. good luck.
2007-01-10 03:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, he is taking your time and energy and its not worth it. if you have had multiple guys cheat on you then I would take a break and sit down to assest the situation. you are picking the boys who cheat.
It is a repitition by unconcious behavior. stop picking the same types. Not all men will cheat, there are tose who will respect and care for you.
2007-01-10 03:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by m40_longrange_death 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you already know that you should just walk away. You know he's a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I'd wash my hands of him and look elswhere. Also sounds like your friends are enabling him to be a jerk. I'd look for new friends too.
2007-01-10 02:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Christina C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer. Stop bothering with him and move on. Dont dwell on it just let go. Making his life misery if not needed, it will only torment you and prob not affect him.
2007-01-10 03:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by workshopbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of guys in this world. There are assholes, and there are charmers. Think to yourself, which one does he fall under?
2007-01-10 02:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of thy self first. are you? because being with loosers is not a good self esteem booster!!!
2007-01-10 02:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋