I know woman do it and im guilty of doing it myself, however, i have not snooped through my current boyfriends stuff at all as i dont really want to know or find summat i wish i hadnt. But i was just wandering if men are as nosey as women and why are we so nosey anyway. we know we will only find something that will p*** us off.
2007-01-10 02:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only their underwear drawer.
2007-01-10 02:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend once who snooped through my things...my wallet, my check book, my journal.
Turned out he was incredibly insecure and petrified I was going to leave him or cheat on him (neither of which I even considered) and was always looking for validation or evidence of his fears.
Eventually I dumped him because his trust issues were incredibly annoying.
So yes, men can be just as nosey as women.
One word of advice, don't do it. Being sneaky and playing detective will only cause problems. If you have any concerns, talk them out.
2007-01-10 02:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't. I think it is a bit rude, to be honest.
I think women do it not just because they are "instinctively nosey",
but they also probably just want to make sure you are not a serial killer or something. I mean imagine if they found some severed fingers in your sock draw? That'd teach 'em.
2007-01-10 02:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, men dont look through thier girlfreinds things unless they have reason to. Its all about trust and care; and the fact that men are embarrassed to find a tampon or pad laying around.
I think its odd to look through my boyfriends things only because I dont want to find something from his past that would make me feel wierd around him, and i dont want him to later find out and get mad at me.
Its all about trust.
2007-01-10 02:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A LOT COMES DOWN TO INSECURITY. IF I WAS TEMPTED TO SNOOP IT WOULD BE BECAUSE THERE WAS SOMETHING IN THE RELATIONSHIP THAT MADE ME FEEL I COULD NOT TRUST. I WOULD NEVER EVEN GO INTO MY GIRLFRIENDS HAND BAG EVEN THOUGH SHE ASKED ME TO. THE ONLY PROBLEMS I ENCOUNTERED IS WHEN HER PHONE WOULD GO AND SHE NEVER INFORMED ME WHO IT WAS OR WHAT IT WAS ABOUT, SHE HAD SECRETS FROM ME AND THAT IS WHEN I CHECKED HER PHONE, FOUND THINGS I DID NOT LIKE BUT ALSO FOUND JUSTIFICATION FOR MY DOUBTS. WE ARE NOT TOGETHER NOW BUT, IN TRUTH I AM GLAD I DID IT. IF YOU ARE IN AN HONEST AND TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP THE ANSWER IS NO, WHEN YOU HAVE REASON TO DOUBT THE ANSWER IS YES.
2007-01-14 00:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by freephoenixuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont and women do it because they want to find something wrong with the guy they are with so they have a reason to be a ***** about ****. A lot of women are always looking for some way to try and make it harder on the guy and what better way then to go and search in places they dont belong.
2007-01-10 02:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes of course just like a woman does with a mans dont deny it
2007-01-10 02:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they do...and if they say they don't then they are fibbing....i knew that my ex partner had been nosing thru my stuff because i woke up and saw the backlight on my mobile phone lit up...it only lights up when it's been used...he was checking my phone book for something, or maybe reading my messages....his insecurities got him dumped....he went thru my handbag too...i have no idea what he was looking for but what ever it was, he didnt find it......bye bye ex....
2007-01-10 02:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not snoop. Trust is required in all relationships. Without it, you have nothing.
2007-01-10 02:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by barter256 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't.
You shouldn't either.
2007-01-10 02:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋