Me and my b-friend have nuthin 2 talk about on the phone. what can we talk about? we been 2gether 4 a month.?

Question

we been 2gether for a month..and now we have nuthin 2 talk about on da phone..been'n dat we den said everything in the 1st 2 weeks.

Answer 1

Talk about what you both want to do with your futures. Jobs, college, where you want to live, if you want to have children, etc.

Answer 2

You could look at the same website or watch the same TV program/DVD or listen to the same music while you're on the phone and talk about that, whatever things interest you both.

Perhaps you could look at some sites to do with where you dream of going on vacation or something, such as travel company sites or by searching for words like 'bermuda' etc on a photo sharing site like Flick to see other people's photos.

It doesn't have to be vacations, it could be some activity you would like to do or have firm plans to do together.

The things you talk about don't have to be important or fascinating, just school gossip, new movies, things friends said, etc. You aren't talking to impress him, just to get closer.

Maybe you should only talk a short while on the phone and spend more time together.

Answer 3

This is a very common thing among young couples who talk to thier significant other on the phone every day.

I suggest cooling it a bit: lay off the phone for a week, and then you'll see the two of you will have a ton of things to talk about on the phone.

Honestly, its always better to hang out in person anyways. The phone is very impersonal and cant show emotions, so people cant really connect completly.

Answer 4

Well, not to bring bad news, but if you guys have only been together for a month and can't think of things to talk about, how are you going to be able to think of things to talk about in another couple of months.

All I can say is that you should talk to him about things that you have in common or about friends (if you know the same people). At least that's what my boyfriend and I talk about and we've been together for six months and live 300 miles apart.Hope that helps.

Answer 5

well you guys can learn more about each others, interest, but to be sincere if you guys dont have anything to talk about and you have only been together for a month then he is not the guy for you. When the relationship is so young you should have millions of things to talk about. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we still find stuff to talk about.

Answer 6

this could be due to one of two things. being that i don't know your whole situation i can't make that call but here's what i am thinking. one, you aren't comfortable enough to converse about everything and anything so its an akward issue that can be healed by spending time together and getting to know each other better or two, it could be a sign you're not right for each other. Communication about anything is key to a strong and lasting relationship.

Answer 7

I think that no much talk is enough, whenever u feel u need to talk to him or u have something to say, go and call him. if not, why do u waste time of each other?. U know the feelings of each other, no need to talk to prove love.
I myself prefer to, if I m in ur place, to call him everyday to wish him gud nite and to talk some sweet words before bed, that s very sweet and make me sleep calm, feeling that he s so.
I think both are practical persons than talkative ones, I think u, both, prefer working, systems, organise, as if u re in police academy, more work, less talk.
talk prove nothing , if ur romantic behaviours talk.

Answer 8

If you are looking for change, it would be a great idea. I am considering getting a sex change, too and I've been doing plenty of research on it.
In the land of the unicorns, you do not need clothing!!!!! :)
Just imagine your self, flying on a unicorn, as a male instead of a female. It is a plesant thing to imagine and you will understand the beauty of getting a sex change.
Sex changes are pure beauty.
Pure beauty :)
They make you think of wonderful things, like ponys, and unicorns, and candy mountains , and children running and skipping hapily through the feilds of flowers in the springtime.

Answer 9

Do not talk always, just give urselves a lil bit time be4 u call each other.And after a day or two u talk n u will see what happens. I know what am talkin abt. try it n good luck

Answer 10

Im sure you havent got to know all about him in the short period youve been together. So.. Just ask a random question about him and that may spark an ongoing conversation. Have fun!

Answer 11

If you are looking for change, it would be a great idea. I am considering getting a sex change, too and I've been doing plenty of research on it.
In the land of the unicorns, you do not need clothing!!!!! :)
Just imagine your self, flying on a unicorn, as a male instead of a female. It is a plesant thing to imagine and you will understand the beauty of getting a sex change.
Sex changes are pure beauty.
Pure beauty :)
They make you think of wonderful things, like ponys, and unicorns, and candy mountains , and children running and skipping hapily through the feilds of flowers in the springtime.