Okay, please....serious Christians only.......I sing in the choir and am finding myself attracted to our Minister of Music. How do I let him know this? Or should I let him know this? Or should I just leave it alone because if it is meant to be it will be?
2007-01-10 02:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
As long as both of you are single there isn't any reason for you to not find out if he is interested in starting a relationship that might lead to marriage. Just do what most respectable women do when they want to let a man know that they have taken more than a passing interest in him.
Find excuses to talk with him and ask him questions about himself and what he likes and what he does for fun. Wear nice clothes and ask him his opinion of them. Tell a friend or two that you think that he is cute. Ask some of his friends some leading questions about him like is he dating anyone and do they know if he is looking to get married.
Eventually he will get the impression that you are attracted to him and then you can see if there is a reciprocal response and take it from there.
2007-01-10 02:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume neither of you are married or in a serious relationship.
After practice one day, ask him for some private tutoring. After this is done, suggest that the two of you grab something to eat. If he's interested, he'll take it from there.
2007-01-10 10:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by jinenglish68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would need your age and his age to determine what you should do. But, if your around his age I would talk to him basically be his friend, and maybe go out on a simple date with him. Make sure you know he isn't going out with another woman or already married. Make sure you become his friend before taking action. Sorry, I couldn't help very much, I couldn't find any of those answers in my Bible. :) God Bless.
2007-01-10 10:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Luke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) how old are you?
2) how old is he?
Unless you are fourteen and he is 28+, I would say that church choir is not the best place to start a relationship. Granted church lock-in's are pretty much designed for that purpose, but, well, just follow your heart.
2007-01-10 10:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell himm about your feelings. And then talk this over..what he feels, what you feel, and the pastor should be there too to help you do the right things...+ ask God is this has a future...
And don't be afraid to tell him...I didn't tell agirl once I loved her in my church....It cost me a heart....
2007-01-10 10:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bazsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he single? is he involved in polygamous marriages? by wanting to date him, do you mean you want to engage in sexual intercourse? beware! satan's web is full of sticky satan juice. it grabs you by the paws, and is elastic as hell. is his sweet barotone voice actually just a disguised shrill demonic cry?
2007-01-10 10:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not married, just talk to him.
2007-01-10 11:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋