I keep hearing that even though I am 5 months pregnant, that it shouldnt prohibit me from dating. I guess I just feel a little strange about it. But I have been shown interest by a few men even though I am pregnant. So I asked a male friend of mine about it. He said some men find pregnant women very attractive. And he also said that some men are attracted to the fact the lady cant get pregnant and he wants to take full advantage of that. I dont want to waste my time on someone who is just into the preggo woman thang. I want to find a true relationship based on us and not the pregnancy. Is this possible?
2007-01-10 02:17:42 · 12 answers · asked by Truth Teller 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Understand I am in no rush and I dont need a man in my life to be happy. My baby boy will be the man in my life until a true and genuine man comes along. I just dont want to be niave at this point in my life. I have a child to think about now, its not at all about me anymore.
2007-01-10 02:47:44 · update #1
Then I suggest you take any dating you do VERY slowly. If you refuse to put out, then the ones who are dating you just for the "preggo woman thang" will move on to someone else. Then you get to really know the ones who have stuck it out until after your child is born.
2007-01-10 02:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant woman - no, and right it truly is why: if she's nonetheless carrying some different person's toddler, then inspite of in the experience that they are nonetheless jointly, the basically accurate ingredient she needs is the added rigidity of making a good impression on a sparkling guy as she needs to proceed to be calm to be sure a healthful being pregnant - and consisting of her risky moods because the being pregnant progresses, i might want to particularly no longer have THAT because the memory I honestly have of the early degrees of the courting. I also imagine that if she's nonetheless pregnant, then no matter if the daddy isn't consisting of her any more effective, he may be the in consumer-friendly words guy on the scene at such an significant time. yet a sparkling mom, i do not see why no longer - as long as she isn't thoroughly adverse to having a baby with ME contained in the destiny (it truly is continuously been a dream of mine to have a kinfolk of my own, so if her questioning become 2I have one now, it really is my lot", then i doesn't be consisting of her in easy words for that reason), then I truly doesn't lower price her in any respect.
2016-12-28 15:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by hanstine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this wholely depends on the man's interest that whether he finds a pregnant woman cool or toast. But either way, if ur history is clear n u n ur man like each other, it doesnt matter how u look, what u wear. Cuz true love doesnt care about these things
2007-01-10 02:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I would say no. The only reason a man would date a preg woman is if he had a prego fantasy. Other than that why would you. You can not even have sex with them for 6weeks afterward and they have a kid so you can not go do normal dating things. As for proving that she could get pregnant, that is not a big deal. Most weman can get pregnant. Single guys generally try to avoid causing that condition. I think more guys would view a preg Lady as damaged goods.
2007-01-10 02:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible but very unlikely... I am afraid that I have to agree with your friend on this one. Alot of men will see that as baggage as well, you are preggo and that means boyfriend lurking near by, mood swings, temper issues.......and they don't want that. it doesnt matter if you are as sweet as apple pie if you are pregnant it has been feed to men that you are mean irritable and the devil reincarnite.
Enjoy your pregnancy and forget the drama of boys i.e. men. focus on your child and let him/her bring you the joy. Men will be there later.
2007-01-10 02:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by m40_longrange_death 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you're going to be pretty dang busy once this baby comes into the world. And your main focus will be on that baby. If you do decide to date, just keep it casual. And no sex. Over time, you'll see what man is truly interested in you and your little one.
2007-01-10 02:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not mind going out with the lady who is pregnant but i need to know from her she is interested in me because most pregnant women are already with their baby daddy so the key here is you need to let me know if you are interested in me most men would go out with you but when they see you are pregnant they assume that you are already with the guy who is going to be the babys child so give me some signs or talk to me or some thing and i do not have any problems
2007-01-10 02:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from me to you..right now just concentrate on you and your child..relationship will come later..when i was pregnant i got alot of looks from men and they wanted to be with me too..but i knew that was least of my worries..maybe you should start thinking about dating when your child is a little older focus on other things to further yourself and better your child...I too was pregnat and alone but i really wasnt even focusing on dating and men i just wanted to have my baby and get back to my sexy self and have a good life..good luck really.
ps. take it from me..i have been there
2007-01-10 02:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me for not being politically correct, but some men would even consider a relationship with dead woman.
2007-01-10 02:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but not especially likely. You should listen to your male friend - I think he's given you excellent advice/insight.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 02:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋