2007-01-10 02:14:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clinton's Cards might do something for the occasion. Perhaps a leathered up mustachioed teddy bear clutching an "I'm Gay!" cushion.
2007-01-10 02:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a woman and you two are married - I guess she's already picked up on that.!
If on the other hand your a man, and this is (i'm guessing) something you've only recently realised, I would take some time to make sure your not just going through a phase of being intruiged by the unknown.
I would recommend you sit down with your wife and have a serious discussion, if you dont think this would work how about watching american pie - the bit where the nurse finds the male g spot.....casually say to your wife - I wonder if that really works - if she suggests trying it, get your wife a strap on and then you can discover if its the unknown thats getting you interested or whether you actually are interested in men.
Personally - if your married - it would tend to suggest you might be bi-sexual more than gay though.
hope it works out for you
x
2007-01-10 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling I have some good news and some bad news, first the good news, you know how since the children were born you have lost your sexual urges, well from now on I won't be putting any pressure on you in the bedroom. Now for the bad news, I have had a feeling for a while now that I may not be so attracted to women as much as I used to be, well I have found out the reason, so you don't need to worry about me having affairs with other women any longer, cos I am gay
2007-01-10 02:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by BobC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a heavily padded attack dog training suit, particularly around your delicate area! how could you make this woman live a lie to make you feel better about your own shame about your sexuality? She has been thinking all this time you love her and will be with her for the rest of her life. You are very selfish so tell her straight away so she can get away from you and find someone with more respect for her, well done mate you are about to destroy someones life!!
2007-01-10 02:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her honestly like most men would or go the wimps way out and leave a quiche in the oven and doyels around the house she might get the idea!
2007-01-10 03:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you but there is going to be no easy way to tell her this. You're going to have to sit her down and calmly explain to her what you've been feeling and that the relationship is over. You can explain how you never meant to hurt her, this is just who you are. Try to be as considerate and calm as possible. She's going to be very upset and probably angry so prepare yourself for some abuse. I can't imagine it will end smoothly but its better for her to find out from you than someone else.
2007-01-10 02:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On a serious, note, which others seem to be having trouble with, the easiest way would be to confide in a counselor/therapist first, decide what your ideal outcome would be, then invite your wife to a session with this person. They can help you come clean and figure out what's next. Good luck!
2007-01-10 02:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by oj 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why tell her, invite one of your boyfriends over, and let her catch ya in the act.
Wait a minute, maybe she will like to join. Most women like to have a 3 some with 2 guys.
2007-01-10 05:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have obviously managed to deceive your wife until now so, if you plan to come clean, be a man for once in your life and just tell her straight out. You owe her that much.
2007-01-10 02:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why, why why did you get married to a real woman when you knew you were gay??? I hope she pulls it off or something, no second thought i wouldn't even touch the thing again. You are very inconsiderate of anyones feelings but your own!
2007-01-10 02:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋