I really like her a lot but she has some things that need to be worked out I guess. She's only been with one other guy before who she lost her virginity to in a week of dating. Then after 4 years they break up and a week later she performs oral for a guy. Now I'm dating her, kinda, she refuses to call each other BF/GF and wants to consider herself single via myspace and introduces me to family as her friend. We've been "together" for almost two months now and we had GREAT sex on Jan 1st. But I've been put back on the shelf to be used at another date basically. No sex, and well i've performed oral on her quite a few times only to get sent home or work "in the mood". She says that while she was with her bf she felt preasured to have sex all the time and started feeling like sex became this big evil thing and hated having sex with him cuz he was an ***. So she now says she's affraid she's going to feel the same way again with me.
2007-01-10 02:14:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried telling her that was just because her bf treated her like sh!t an all that. So now here i am the guy thats given her everything I can an more and here i am the only guy getting no play while she gave play to a$sholes? What should I do? I really can see if we get past the evil no sex that we can have a really good relationship together but right now its KILLING ME.
2007-01-10 02:17:22 · update #1
What you have to do is back way off. This isn't the kind of person you need to be with right now. You need to just sit down and tell her that you really like her but you are not comfortable with the way your relationship is going or the things she is doing with other people and you think its best if you guys just back off for awhile. Let her know that if she decides she wants to commit to a relationship with you then you would be willing but if all she wants is someone for a booty call every now and then that she has the wrong guy. Don't let her problems ruin your life and make you unhappy.
2007-01-10 02:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being selfish, your giving her oral sex but she dosen't do anything for you? I wouldn't perform that on her after the games she playing with other people,, she says her ex pressured her all the time for sex, i think that is just an excuse because sex is sex, no matter if it's oral or the regular way know what i mean? She's using you only when it is convenient for her, not a good thing find someone else that will enjoy all the pleasures you have to offer. GL
2007-01-10 10:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her decisions. just cause she gave stuff to other guys doesnt mean you can expect the same thing. your an a.s.s for expecting the same from her. you dont deserve to call your relationship good when all in all your the one who is pressuring her
2007-01-10 10:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by kf17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋