how do u make up with a girl who hates you but you want to get friendly with her again? How to apologize non verbally when a verbal apology is refused?
2007-01-10 02:09:14 · 19 answers · asked by kiju 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe there is something she just isnt telling you. there may be something wrong or maybe she feels uncomfortable around you at the moment and you should give her time to adjust.
2007-01-10 02:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's refusing your verbal apology because she wants to STAY split up but she can't tell you because she doesn't want to hurt you, nothing will get you back together as anything more than friends. And friendship has to be strong before anything more has a chance of developing anyhow. Let her know you'd like to work on just being friends again, in writing if you have to, attached to a rose, mylar balloon or card. Or send a cake or pizza that says you're sorry on top. Or do something outrageous like driving by her house with a sign on your car that says you're sorry or recite her a poem or send a singing telegram or sing to her yourself, right in front of the world around you! Just don't STALK her! Try a few things once then back off & just accept it if nothing works then move on to someone else who can appreciate you.
2007-01-10 10:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her Space trust me, She is very mad right now so you should leae her alone for a couple of day dont call her either, wait a couple of day and during those day you can send her flower or chocolates and then write her an appology letter cause maybe she doesnt want to see you, after that just talk to her and apologize it works.... Good Luck
2007-01-10 10:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by beutifulbutterfly101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does getting friendly with her mean? If she won't accept apology write her note and send flowers saying "I'm sorry, I was wrong for what I did/said." women want to hear that when they feel like your wrong. It must of been something really bad huh? If flowers don't help forget it-if she can't forgive you don't beg. UNLESS you cheated then I don't Blame HER! Good Luck!
2007-01-10 10:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter to apologize. There's nothing worse than an apology that lacks substance - it's just words. You need to behave remorseful, and be persistant. Persistance beats resistance. She wants to SEE that you're sorry.
2007-01-10 10:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with both suggestions. Leave her alone for a while. But then when she is least suspects it send her flowers with a note, chocolate, or something that you know she is really going to like.
2007-01-10 10:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by littledragoon80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Identify what prompted her anger and hatred for you. Try to improve your ugly trait that earned you the wrath of her dislike. Your actions subsequently may win her back to you. Good luck.
2007-01-10 10:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go under her window at night and serenade her with a love song. You have to do it real loud so lots of people hear. When she sees you are willing to embarrass yourself for her she will take you back.
2007-01-10 10:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do the same good things for her you would if she weren't angry with you. Don't get angry back at her if she doesn't respond. Just keep doing good things for her, but not in an obnoxious way.
2007-01-10 10:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by just me, right? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a day or so to relax and buy her flowers write her letters and or make her something sweet from the heart.
2007-01-10 10:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by hottie_grl911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋