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what if i just dont want to exist? i mean like, not go to heaven or hell. it wasnt my choice to live. i was forced into it. for god loved the world so much that he forced humanity into existence, so that even if they should kill themselves, they will spend a miserable eternity in hell, as opposed to not existing in either heaven or hell, which would remove the burden of hell actually. how can i get god to hate me so much, that he doesnt even want me in hell, or in existence? by the way, im a "born again" christian. way to glorify god, eh? what choice do i have.

2007-01-10 01:56:44 · 12 answers · asked by ּΩּ 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

12 answers

God loves you because God is love. His character is to love.

God does not hate you, but as a just God and for the good of the universe he must punish sin and destroy sin and sinners even though he hates to have to kill people. Sin and sinners cause suffering in the universe and they themselves would not enjoy heaven as its whole ethos of love goes against their selfish nature, so God destroys them in the end. The wages of sin is death, not eternal life in hell.

Because God loves everyone including his enemies, he has made a way for sinners to go to heaven instead of being destroyed in hell. This is why Jesus, whose very name was given to him as an illustration of his mission (see Matt 1:21), came to earth and died to save us from our sins, so that we can defect from Satan's side and become members of his family, of his kingdom that is based on unselfish love. He has given us a choice.

2007-01-10 03:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Beng T 4 · 0 0

You need to understand something. People that want nothing to do with God would not want to go to heaven. Remember that heaven is where God is. So if people don't love God, then why would they want to spend an eternity worshipping and serving God in heaven?

Hell is a place where God torments people's souls that hate Him. Although this is not Biblical but my own opinion, I think Hell is a place where people are exposed to God's righteousness and people are seen for what they are and the atrocity of their sins. There is now no covering of their sins and nowhere to hide. Hell is where they are fully exposed for every secret thought, impulse and desire they ever had that is evil. Jesus couldn't really explain what Hell was like except He said it is an actual place where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth. And a place where the worm never dies. I don't think it is a place of torture but of torment. Possibly a place where people realize what could have been but would now never get an opportunity to enter heaven. A place of eternity where crossing over from Hell to Heaven is impossible. This is also a place where God did not want to send people for He loves the world as John 3:16 tells us. It is a place for Satan and the fallen angels. Unfortunately, Satan deceives many and keeps many in darkness and ignorance of the truth about Jesus, God's son. These people condemn themselves through the numerous transgressions of God's moral laws written on everybody's heart.
God seeks mercy not sacrifice. God wants to forgive people of their sins, but people must first repent of their sins and trust His son Jesus to save them. The problem is people love their sins more than God. Therein lies the struggle. Your will or God's will for your life.

2007-01-10 10:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As a Christian you know that it is impossible for God to hate, His very nature is love. Having had my life turned upside down on several occasions and having felt the same way as you do, I can sympathize with your pain, but you have to believe that God has a plan and a design for all the things in your life. That God wants you to be with Him.

While I DO NOT want you to even think about taking your life remember that we do not know who goes to hell.

God judges who goes to hell and under what circumstances. What we do know is that when you confess your sins and proclaim Jesus as your personal savior you are going to heaven

2007-01-10 10:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas G 6 · 0 0

Even in the state you're in right now, He loves you. What so hard about that? Why can't you accept the love of God? It's more pwerful than any human love. Maybe you need to grab a hold onto God like never before and ask Him get you up out of that mind state you're in. Satan wishes to sift you as wheat, but God loves keeps Him back. But if you allow yourself to think like this then you give God no choice but to let Satan come in and do what he wants to do. Get your life back from the devil. WHom the Son has set free is free in deed. Tell the devil no, you won't have my mind.

2007-01-10 10:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nish 4 · 0 0

Wow, Death INCARNATE is a messed up individual. He will really be messed up when he is gone, thank goodness for that.

Yes, God is there, always there and Christ died for your sins. Life is short compared to eternity and if Heaven is that wonderful. I WANT TO EXIST.

God bless you, be praying for you.

2007-01-10 10:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bo123654 1 · 0 0

read Boethius, Consolation of Philosophy. $12 penguin classics.

2007-01-10 10:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Julian 6 · 0 0

He is a loving God

2007-01-10 10:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It does not. That which does not exist cannot love. It can't hate either.

2007-01-10 10:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think no excuse me i KNOW that god loves you no matter what u think and on the day of judgement he will prove it even thou he already has by sacrificing hid only son for our sins.

2007-01-10 10:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by kellydarcey 2 · 0 0

because you are His creation.
you need some friends.

2007-01-10 10:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by pops 6 · 0 0

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