theres this guy that im just getting to know and i feel we have such a good connection the thing is he's unlike anyone ive ever met, theres something deeper about him that makes me feel i dunno its difficult to explain, but theres so much about him that im intruiged about, i have conversations with him that are completly off the wall and i really enjoy talking to him, i dont know wether i like him or not, becasue i really dont weant to spoil the relationship i have with him, because its so unlike anything ive come across before, the thing is i dont think our time is now ide rather wait till after ive finished school, cept i cant help but think that our relationship with detirioate, wat do u think i should do? has anyone else ahd an experence like this they want to share? any comments please, i wanna know whats going on with other peoples experiences, xxx
2007-01-10 01:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have met someone you really like. Don't rush it. Just take it slow and let time take its course. Most relationships you hear about that start out great and end rocky is because they were rushed into. Give yourselves time to see the whole picture of the other person...not just the outer shell of them. A new relationship, friend or otherwise, will always bring out your best qualities first for awhile. Its after the newness wears off that you start to see whats underneath. If you still feel the same after the newness is gone then you definately have something worth pursuing.
2007-01-10 02:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be and you're connection is really as deep and special as you say then it will outlast the rest of your schooling and anything else that gets in the way. I don't mean this in the magical, fairytale sense though. Relationships take a lot of work, even the best ones are hard at times but it takes that good connection to be able to work those hard times out. Maybe you could try to take it slow while you're still in school and see how it goes. If you guys can't deal with things like school together then you'll never be able to deal with the other problems life will continuously throw in your way.
2007-01-10 10:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never been in a situation like yours. if i feel a connection and he doesn't make a move after we've gotten to know each other, then he never will. Either he's a pansy or he's not interested in that way. But i dont know how long you guys know each other. You should keep the relationship going because people you connect with are hard to find. If you guys are meant to be, it will happen. Don't expect it or wait around for it.
2007-01-10 10:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk to much.
2007-01-10 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋