I've been dating this girl for awhile.. i moved in.. then we broke up, i moved out.. took some time apart, and now we've been talking and things have gotten better over the past month.. i really love her care about her so much.. we broke up becasue she wasn't sure if she wanted a "b/f".. i didn't want to stick around for that.. anyway.. come to find out, it hurts too much not be in her life.. so if she wants a friend/boyfriend/whatever.. i'll be there for her.. but she told me last night that she may want to get back together, but she doesn't want to feel pressured that i may love her more than she lvoes me or something weird like that.. am i getting set up fro antoher let down? any advice or suggestions, and moving on isn't an option..
-confused helplessly in love guy
2007-01-10 01:54:40 · 2 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't move in with her your setting yourself up for a fall. Distance yourself from her and cool your emotions a little, this works like a charm. When you really love someone your instinct is to cling to them which makes them want to run! Do the opposite and she'll coming running your way. Date her but don't move in till she knows how she feels. She sounds unsure about you so don't give to much, don't get your heart broken. Toughen up and she'll start paying attention.
2007-01-10 03:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like a river, and all you can do is drift through it and let it flow.
Take a shot, you never know what you could be missing.
2007-01-10 10:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by alchemicalstann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋