I love him soo much, & he loves me too,i dont know the reason
2007-01-10 01:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by aries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. Right now your relationship is like you are paying a mortgage only to find out at the end of 25 years that you don't own the house. Get out of the rental market.
2007-01-10 01:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First I would ask him why he does not want to marry. Then I would communicate to him how important it is to you (if it is that important) that marriage is in the future. It sounds like you both need to communicate more--he may have a fear, or a valid reason, he may have nothing but the male ego not wanting to be "tied down". If you both love each other that much--then it seems that communication should be pretty easy--have a serious talk--find out whats going on. You may find that you are traveling different paths, and you certainly don't want to keep hanging on if the end result will be seperation. If there is only fear see if it can be alleviated, if it is just "later" try and get a time estimate--see if you want to wait that long. Good Luck!
2007-01-10 09:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider the statistics; Over half of all marriages end in divorce, more so with couples under the age of 25.
Look, if the two of you are already emotionally committed to one another, then why do you need a piece of paper to authenticate it? If you two have unresolved issues now, MARRIAGE won't fix it.
Marriage isn't like living in a fairy tale. It takes a lot of work, adjustments, compromise, and anger management.
2007-01-10 10:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a very serious discussion about where each of you want your relationship to go from here! If you cannot come to common ground about this question, then you should consider why you are still together!!
2007-01-10 09:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by donna in wetumpka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means that much to you you should probably move on. Your desperation to get married will make you resentful towards him and he shouldn't be forced into doing something he doesn't want to do. Some people just don't want to get married, accept it or find someone else.
2007-01-10 18:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tell him you need to know the reason,because you were expecting to get married and you need to know if he ever plans on making you his wife.
The worst thing you could do is try to force a marriage on him that he is not wanting or is ready for,but you also have a right to know if you are wasting your time.
2007-01-10 09:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My question to you would be how old are you? if you two are still young then yes, it's better to wait a little longer and enjoy being free, but if you feel that in the end the relationship is going nowhere, it's better for everyone to go their seperate ways.
2007-01-10 09:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to read He's Just Not That Into You. When you realize it's a hopeless case, I hope you'll move on and find someone who does want to get married.
2007-01-10 09:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cant force anyone into marriage, he may just not be ready yet. Say he caves in and finally asks you then wouldnt you think the only reason he did is because you forced him to? Give it time. Let him do it when hes ready. And if he is never ready then you have a problem!
2007-01-10 09:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
if you were ever to find out the reason you probably wouldn't want to be with him anyway.
2007-01-10 09:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋