He actz like everything we do bothers him and he treatz my mom like a slave. Always bosses her around and he even sometimes set time limits on her. I don't appreciate that and itz bugging me. How can I tell my mother about all the situations that I see are going on?
2007-01-10 01:07:30 · 5 answers · asked by Cherri09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i aLs0 hAv A stEp fAthEr, but hAv diff. situation,.. we're a li'l close & sumtyms we're havng fun but, there are tyms dat i dun lyk his attitudes, coz his some kind of a 'bossy',.. & there are tyms dat i hear him telling bad w0rdz 2 me..
da 1st thing dat u g0tta d0 is try 2 b nice 2 him, or, if it doesn't rili w0rks, u should hav a li'l patience, or if he's rili getting in through u'r nerves, then, u rili hav 2 tell ur mom bout watz rili goin' on, dat u rili dun like him, u should not be scared, coz u hav da ryt 2 tell wat u rili feels bout him, maybe if u tell it to ur mom, it can help yah, maybe it can help to change ur step father's bossy-like attitudes...
2007-01-10 01:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend going through the exact same situation. Learn more about domestic violence, and the biggest step of all, confront your mother about how you feel and make sure she understands and doesn't just ignore you. A mother's decision and be greatly impacted by the words of her own children.
2007-01-10 09:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Vi3tBboyBIGS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same you told us. Look up websites on domestic violence. Let your mother see the checklist and see how many she can check off.
He's controlling and it's only a matter of time that he starts getting violent. If there are any small children, sexual abuse is not an impossibility.
Get rid of this guy now.
2007-01-10 09:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem so if you find the answer then hit me up!!...But sometimes when it really really gets on my nerves i tell my mother what i think...& plus i have my brother on my side so he kind of helps me out..cause he thinks the same thing.
2007-01-10 09:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by dewthedude7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us. She will take care of things if she knows you are be effected by his actions.
2007-01-10 09:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋