family problems.?

Question

what should i do when my dad scold me for not tidy up my room? if ya guys heard what my dad says, it really piss u off.

Answer 1

You could always try keeping your room tidy...you won't hear complaints from him and you will be able to find your things without looking.

Answer 2

When adults are stressed about adult stuff like finances, health worries, job problems, fears, etc., it's very hard for them to deal with. So a little thing like a child's messy room can do one of two things:

1. Send the adult 'over the top' because of all the above stressors - it seems like that is the 'last straw' - a messy room from an 'ungrateful child' that the adult is providing food and accommodations for.

2. It can be a way to unload some of the stress from other more unmanageable issues to focus on something like a messy child's room. It is something that an adult CAN perhaps do something about, unlike the other stressors above.

Can you, - to do your part in your household, - tidy up your room? It will give you an orderly evironment and a sense of peace and calm as well as lessen the tension in the household. Please just think about it.

Despite all the above I've said, parent should NOT use inappropriate language or behaviour toward their children.

Answer 3

Right now the only thing you can do, is keep your room tidy so that your dad doesn't have to scold you like that again.

However give it a few days and depending on how your relationship is with your dad maybe you could sit him down and tell him that you were upset by the way that he told you off or maybe you could mention it to your mum and see what she has to say about it

Answer 4

most people when they angry they would say a lot of bad things. don't take it to hard it's just a way to express they anger.
if you really think about it, you'll see and understand that actually he did it for your own good sake. he teach you to live tidy and responsible. if you never do this thing so what happen when you have to live on your own or even when you got married. are you going to leave everything messy around the house...?
i am proud of what i do right now. my apartment is spotless and tidy and all thanks to my mom. she teach me like that. i never embarras to have friends coming over because i know there's nothing to embarras about my apartment.
so try to do it and don't get piss off when your dad told you to. it's good for you...!
now...go and do some tidy up ya...cheer up will you...?

Answer 5

Keep your room tidy and you won't get pissed off at what he says. Simple!

Answer 6

clean your room and you won't have this problem.....or pay rent