wat those it means when you a girl and care a lot..i mean a lot about another gurl..you feel bad when you make her sad..you want to be always with her.. ur relationship like a couple..like boys and gurls..n you dont want her to leave you..is it love? is it wrong if a gurl fall in love with another gurl?
2007-01-10 00:37:12 · 16 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does it means if you care a lot about another gurl..when you yourself a gurl.. you feel like you want to be by her side every moment..but in the same time..you stil want her to change herself to be the person you dream of..you want her so badly as yours..when she leaves you..you want to forget about her, but you just can't..and yet you still mad at her because she can't be the person you dream of..yes..maybe this sound like a lesbian things and it does..but i just want the answer ok. thanks
2007-01-10 01:17:14 · update #1
You need to worry about your school work .learn how to spell. there's nothing wrong with being a vagitarian(lesbo) as long as you're not planning to have children.At your age you'll fall in & out of love 6 times a month.So dont spend time worrying about it.focus on your school work
2007-01-10 00:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I hear a lot of this lesbian and gay "thing", but the fact you are attracted by another girl does not make you a lesbian. In fact, in the psychological field your feelings about this friend of yours can be explain in a very different manner. Anyway in this moment you are locking for your own identity. (many teenagers have at one point of their life's this kind of dilemma).
Every one knows that strong friendships are based especially on trust and affection. This are the key elements which sometimes evolve into love. Here is the tricky part - This characteristic does not involve the "mixture" women + man ...If someone admire another person a lot there are chances that this two persons end up being together, one day. The same thing happen in the relation mother+child/ cousin+cousin and friend+friend. Still, the same feelings appear in this kind of relations there are some cases when (especially in the third) things "go to another level".
I believe you mess things a little. Good friends are very hard to find and when you do you want to make them happy.
I guess, you ask yourself "am I straight or I\am I a lesbian?"
If this question is annoyng for you, well this is a first sign you are straight. But this crush of yours can be related to a psyhichal present state: if you feel alone or you don't have so many friends as you want (etc), you are more vulnerable to the situation you describe earlier and that means you are 100 % straight. On the other hand if you have fantassies with this girl and not knoing what to do, is best for you to talk with a specialist (surely he or she knows many other cases like yours and know exacly what advice to give you after they will know the entire story).
If you decide to talk to her about your feelings take notice about her concepts of human sexual orientation...
It will be nice if you have someone to talk more about your question...
it's better 'face -to- face"... or
If you want you can write me an e-mail
2007-01-10 09:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to another girl. Nothing wrong with that. But you are not a Lesbian. You are just unsure of the feelings you are experiencing.
Don't expose your feelings yet to the other girl. Test your grounds with your best friend by having casual (not frequent) converstations about girl-girl relations. Best wishes.
2007-01-10 08:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in love and it is not wrong to fall in love with another gurl
2007-01-10 08:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Britbrat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong but make sure she feels the same and be sure it is the right thing to do as if you are friends and she doesn't feel the same as you do then it might impact on your friendship.
2007-01-10 08:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong. By the way, learn how to spell and make sentences that make sense. This isn't the ghetto.
2007-01-10 08:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by spanky1492 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no . it means that u r just caring a lot of hern u r good frens
2007-01-10 08:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart and be happy, life is to short to be unhappy get whatever haapiness you can.
2007-01-10 08:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing wrong with being in love with another girl... are you a lesbian??? is she???
2007-01-10 08:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah u just a lesbian!
2007-01-10 08:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by rollindem20z 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋