I'm a 22-year-old female who has never climaxed, alone or with my partner. I have had other partners in the past and couldn't then either. I want to talk to my doctor about this but I am kind of embarassed but should I though? I would love to experience this. My boyfriend thinks it's him but it's not. Other girls before me have climaxed for him. How do I make this happen and am I the only other female like this in the world???
2007-01-10 00:36:40 · 16 answers · asked by AngieBaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite the survey of people you have asked, please know that you are not alone. It is not uncommon for woman to have the issue you are describing. 15-24% of woman experience this issue. My best advice is to take your time and do some research on the web to find a healthcare provider that you can feel some level of comfort or trust.
You can get some further information on WebMD . Good luck
2007-01-10 00:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gaga Warlock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much experience you have had it may or may not be a big deal. Of course you should climax at least once in a lifetime....
It depends on how comfortable you are as well. And the feeling is different with every woman.
Personal note: I have climaxed with previous boyfriends, but my current one makes the earth shatter (if that makes sense) and I feel a lot more comfortable with him than with any previous one.
Relax, find out more about your body and go from there. If you are doing all of that then talk to your GYN or a sex therapist.
2007-01-10 00:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitly not alone. My boyfriend's ex had the same problem (not that i want to talk about her as she's a cow) but she never did, and I do everytime with my bf, so it's got nothing to do with him.
You need to be super relaxed first. That's key one. I would still try alone first. You know those muscles you squeeze when you're holding back going to the toilet?... Well, hold them in whilst manually stimulating. I find it best lying down on back.
Read up on it a bit on the net and see how you go.
If you get too worked up, it won't happen. I've read that women need to be super relaxed for that to happen....
Good luck and don't despair.
2007-01-10 00:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Snoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor isn't going to be able to help you. Your problem is probably that you are focusing on climaxing rather than just enjoying the sex. Stop trying to MAKE yourself climax because it won't happen.
2007-01-10 00:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and most importantly relax and try not to worry about it, the more you worry the harder it will be to climax, it could be that your not just relaxed enough, and there are lots of women who have very happy sex lives who have never climaxed, just try lots of foreplay and different positions till you find one that stimulates you the most, many women cant climax from penetration alone good luck,
2007-01-10 00:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The physical attraction must be their. Also concentration on enjoyment no the climax. Have a drink and add more foreplay.
2007-01-10 00:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some reading and work on being able to do it to yourself...focus on the outside versus inside...if you still cannot, then yeah you may want to talk to your doc and make sure everything is there and working properly...perhaps you're just nervous or have some internal mental block that is preventing you from relaxing and letting it happen...
2007-01-10 00:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too worried about trying to climax. try relaxing and not worrying about it soooooo much. be in the moment and just let whatever happens happens. im sure you are not the only one, but it sure is a bummer to not get to the big "o". keep trying and good luck!
2007-01-10 00:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all reality it is a common thing amoung girls. You have to talk to a doctor or just find something that really turns you on that can get u off.
2007-01-10 00:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just don't get there. Maybe a doctor can help. If you have a tiny or hidden clitoris, well, if you can't get to it, you can't get off.
2007-01-10 00:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋