Everytime i wanna talk to him i get this panic in me. and it makes me..not talk to him! I hate the fact that i have many chances to talk to him..but i can't shake this feeling. ..my friends say when he's around im quiet which im usually not! Helpp!!
2007-01-10 00:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kk...i wanna talk to him cuz he's really hot..and i sorta like him! He sometimes talks to me..but mostly he stares! I've seen him talk to other people..and it's not good! He just doesn't give a ****!
2007-01-10 00:56:07 · update #1
I was the same way with this one guy i knew, and it ruined everything........ after being around him more and the little conversations we had on the phone it got more comfortable after a while. There's really nothing you can do. Its like you think about everything before you say it then just don't say anything, right? lol it sux
2007-01-10 00:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has it ever occurred to you that this guy may have a complex about himself? some people "hide" behind arrogance, dominance, egotism. People are NOT always who they appear to be. - Why has HE not spoken to YOU? does HE perhaps not also have some panic that he is hiding, avoiding, overshadowing with his arrogance? he probably has the exterior of a bulldog and an interior of a puppy. as NIKE would say: JUST DO IT! what the worst that can happen? If he does not like you, that does not mean to say you don't have to like him in return - I'm sure it will all be fine though. WAIT! If this arrogance is not just a front, and he is in fact a low life dog, then move on - what do you wanna do with him anyway?
2007-01-10 01:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, if he's arrogant and rude, why exactly do you want to talk to him?
EDIT: So what? Looks fade (eventually), but the arrogance and rudeness will linger on! Find someone a little less hot, but much kinder. And for heaven's sake, cultivate some self-esteem!
2007-01-10 00:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also get that feeling of being quiet when I'm around certain people but you have to let it go because you'll be more dissapointed with yourself if don't talk to him than if you talk to him. Sail away from the safe harbour. It will make you sleep better at night if you talk to him no matter how his response is.
2007-01-10 00:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To boost your self confidence you should do "drills" at home. When no one is around, practice out loud what kind of conversations you may have. At first this will seem silly and awkward but keep it up and you'll notice a change in the way you carry yourself.
2007-01-10 00:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. He's not worth talking to
2007-01-10 00:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need help girl, but not what you think
you need help getting this rediculous crush out of your system
2007-01-10 00:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him then
2007-01-10 00:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by sk8terchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TREAT HIM LIKE A DOG
2007-01-10 00:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop to your knees and you will get his attention
2007-01-10 00:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋