I don't have the best tummy... its not big and its not a 6pack... but just above my belly button there's a little dip.. does that gross men out? i hate it.. maybe there's a way to get rid of it.. even in my super slim days it was there! are tummys important to men?
2007-01-10 00:30:52 · 39 answers · asked by kweenses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. Of course if you feel self conscious about it then don't wear something that shows it off so that you can be comfortable around others while you're still dressed. In case you have a guy there while you're getting naked, believe me, they will hardly notice or be worried about something like that. People who have been around other naked people will have realized ages ago that no one has a perfect magazine body, and little "imperfections" are nothing out of the ordinary, if not endearing.
2007-01-10 00:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter a big dip a huge muffin top or whatever, if he loves you he will and should love your body. Most real men love being able to hold a woman tightly without feeling like he's going to break her. If you just have an un toned tummy, geez, feel lucky, I had 2 kids, gained 70 lbs with both and 3 years later finally lost the rest of the weight, and my husband loved the curves when I was bigger and now 88 lbs lighter. If you are bothered by it, thats the only reason to do something about it. Check your head and make sure the "MEN" you are with are into you, not your tummy. p.s. Tummies are the hardest thing to work on, it takes dedication or get a tummy tuck if its that important. Oh yeah, my husband is very tall and very thin... so we are different. and he loves it!!!
2007-01-10 00:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by useless_knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beleive me when I say this, there are plenty of men out there who like a woman with a bit of meat on her, a flat tummy is way down the list of physical atributes a man would look for. Obviously personality is more important but I assume you already have a nice personality. I think it's all about proportion and does your tummy fit in with the rest of your body. You may think it doesn't but you are the harshest critic to yourself. Men will love you regardless of flat tummy or sexy bumpy tummy. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2007-01-10 00:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I have seen in my lifetime, men do not share the same taste with regard to what they consider the female ideal body. Some men like women that other men would regard as too fat. Others like women with that other men would regard as too skinny. Take comfort that there is a guy out there that is really turned on by this little dip that is causing you so much distress.
2007-01-10 00:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by spirus40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is often the way that the things we least like in ourselves are what others find endearing, it is part of what makes you unique! If a man is that shallow as to not like you for a dip in your stomach he is not worthy of your attentions, who is he, Adonis?! Beauty is skin deep anyway and it is your personality that lasts much longer than any wrinkles and imperfections that may show on the outside. Don't do anything about it, you sound like you are in good shape, just be happy you have your health and learn to love you just as you are because that is what makes you special!
2007-01-10 00:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my eyes a little tummy like that is attractive. Makes better belly dancers thand 6 pack girls. If you look at girls like Shakira she is super sexy and has a small tummy
2007-01-10 00:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is, are you happy with your own body? However to answer your question, It would not gross me out, my wife (who I love very much) is what I would describe as curvaceous. I like her nice soft belly, dips and all.
2007-01-10 00:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly doesn't rise to the level of "gross," though obviously perfection is preferable to something less. Few men are that picky, and even fewer have a right to be.
2007-01-10 00:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
those things are not what REALLY matters to us in choosing a partner. i want the inner person to be beautiful. a woman that is honest, sweet, kind, funny, intelligent, trusting...those arethe things we should all be looking for!!! if a guy thinks that the tummy is what is most important, he is shallow and you need to move on.
2007-01-10 00:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a tummy does matter sometimes but sometimes it doesnt. Most men are attracted to women. Love yourself and men will also love u
2007-01-10 00:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋