i believe that u can be in love with s1 bt u dnt indulge into sex. im i rite?
2007-01-10 00:29:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
girl, if he really loved you then he wouldn't force you to have sex, but will wait very patiently until you are ready. However there are things that you can do with him, that are not necessarily sex, to keep him entertain mean while.
2007-01-10 03:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the previous you've sex, all of us is fearful about dropping their virginity, yet you both sound extremely uncertain about it. and contained in the eighth grade, fairly a lot each toddler thinks about sex. that doesnt advise theyre waiting, or could, act on those impulses although. 5 months is a lengthy time period to be courting, yet wait till youre extremely particular you experience waiting. and do not ignore that there is continuously a danger that you'll get pregnant, no matter if you take advantage of a condom. yet please be sure you've some type of contraceptive accessible, basically in case you 2 do settle on to grant one yet another your virginity. in consumer-friendly words you are able to make the decision, yet im particular you'll imagine it by way of heavily and make the alternative accurate for you! :)
2016-12-28 14:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forcing is called rape. Being manipulated into something that you are clearly not ready for is wrong. If your boyfriend loved you, he would not force you or manipulate you into doing anything you were uncomfortable with. There should be a mutual respect and apparently he is lacking respect for you. Kick him to the curb and find someone that will love you and respect you for the person you are and puts your best interest first.
2007-01-10 00:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are right...you can be in love with someone without having sex with them. If you're not married there's really no reason you should feel pressured to have sex. Just remember, no one can force you to do anything. And if he does force himself on you, that's considered rape and you need to report him to the police immediately.
2007-01-10 01:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If your not ready for sex he should respect that, and clearly by forcing you he does not. Dump him and find someone better. You deserve to be respected. You dont want to be in an abusive relationship, so you need to leave him. Good luck
2007-01-10 01:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u r right, u can love someone and not have sex. i have been with my b/f for 3 years now and had a baby 2 years ago and havent had the urge to want sex since then
2007-01-10 00:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by lisa_eli_92252 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea you're right, you can love someone without indulging in sex. I suggest you have a heart to heart talk with your bf and tell him your views, he should understand your point of view
2007-01-10 00:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Vera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U R ABSOLETELY RIGHT.....
in love sex doesnt hav place...u hav sufficient time after ur marriage ,u convince him ,by saying in ur wordz u dont want to have now....bcaz itz also ur rgt to say no,ok n be sure he also loves u ,n not a pass over.....
2007-01-10 00:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to have sex with your boyfriend, go out with someone that is a virgin. They will respect your beliefs. Good luck
2007-01-10 00:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loved u then he would wait. if he doesnt wait then he's not ment for you. you deserve better
2007-01-10 00:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lorna D 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋