I am 16
I remember that I always be the number one student in my class when I learned from grade 1st to grade 9th !!!
But now,I am in 10 th grade,I amnot the numberone student in my class anymore,I am 22/49,my parents are so sad (but they are more angry !!!).They said that I was just an idiot,I am nothing but a lazy student !!!They said that I am not good at learning cuz I play too much game and spend too much time with my new girlfriend !!! They swear that If I amnot the numberone student in my class,they won't allow me to live in this house !!!
I feel that I have decay in my mind,I cause stress everyday,I am tired of their s*ck insult !!! They even make a call with my teacher (That action 's sooo stupid and so sh*t,I think)
I only think that "Sh*t ! What is the big deal here ???"
I feel sick and veryyyyyyy angry about this !
Can u tell me :
1.Am I right or my parents are right ?
2.What should I do now ? Should I insult back my parents and tell them I didn't do anything ?
2007-01-10 00:16:00 · 3 answers · asked by crystal_heart100 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, as a parent, i would think they have your best in mind and they just care about you, but if they are insulting you, it's just mean so don't insult them back, it'll only make it worse, they sound very controlling, you need to be honest with the way you feel, how upset you are that you are getting sick, and you are so stressed out, they aren't helping you do well in school by putting you down, maybe the school counselor could help you talk to them, and then show them you are serious about school by getting a tutor, but you need to have fun too. I hope this helps a little. Dont ever believe anyone when they put you down. To calm down if you are upset, try yoga, it'll center you and make you calmer.
2007-01-10 00:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by littlegirllost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orlando, we live in a very competitive world. It helps you more when you have a little edge over others. Your parents love you and would like you to succeed. That is the reason why they are trying to figure out why you regressed from being first all the time to 22 out of 49. Sincerely, it is not too good. There are 22 people better than you and the class is not that big anyway. You are now average. Average does not really cut it in the world nowadays because there is an urge in society towards progress. Only real smart people can help acheive that kind of progress. they are very persistent because they know your potential and it saddens them. They want the best for you and would like you to be successful in life. Ask yourself if you have really put in the necessary work to have the edge that you've always had. Some smart students, sometimes, know their potential. They know that they will always pass so they put in the litlle amount of work required to make it. You need to get back that drive that was motivating you to reach excellence in life. Your parents are right about girlfriends and games. Those can be distractions if you do not have the necessary balance. They are of course part of your growing up but they should not be interfering in your studies. You need to set your priorities. School should always be first as this is the main key to a bright future. Do the games and spend ,time with your girlfriend in moderation. One last thing, do not be so defensive and resilient with your parents. You will ignite their anger by doing that. Tell them that you understand their concern and will try harder; that you will have a good balance between school work and games and girlfriend. Remember, your parents have your best interests in mind.
2007-01-10 00:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My existence is sucks too yet i imagine too many ppl does!:D My dad moved to an different united states of america, my mum kicked me out from the domicile and that i stay with my grandparents... Im continuously ill and that i imagine the reason of it really is my mum :( My classmates and different adult men love me tho yet i do not really like them my ideal buddy left me 2 years in the past she moved to an different united states of america and we cant even communicate:( i'd opt for to regulate college and commence a sparkling existence yet its so complicated:(
2016-10-17 00:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋