2007-01-10 00:15:51 · 9 answers · asked by Pamela P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why yes..there's no harm in proposing..as long as you don't try and get married before he leaves. Don't rush into to it just because of the situation. This deployment will be like a test to see if the love is real and if you both are ready for marriage. Take your time and put alot of thought into it..there's more to relationships then love..and marriage is not an easy commitment.
2007-01-10 00:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by dillionstoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should use this deployment as a chance to figure out if your relationship is strong enough to last. Six months isn't very long compared to being married for a lifetime to someone who you're not even sure you really know. Deployments are really hard to get through, for both people, if you two stay in touch as much as possible, and you both feel the same way when he comes home, that will prove the strength of your relationship and trust, that's when he should propose. Be faithful, keep sending letters and packages, always make sure he knows that you love him and can't wait for him to come home. Best wishes!
2007-01-10 03:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband and I dated less than that before he proposed, but your situation is different. As someone else pointed out, it's not easy being a military wife. Before you make that committment not only to him but to that lifestyle, you really should go through a deployment.
Secondly, the way that you phrase this question makes it sound like you think he should do it BECAUSE he's deploying. That's horrible, don't pressure him about it, he's probably under enough pressure already.
2007-01-11 06:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is not long enough. Wait a little longer. A lot can happen while he is in Iraq. You don't want to break his heart while he is over there fighting for his life. See if you can get through this 1st deployment, then talk about engagement.
2007-01-10 01:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he should propose, you may have talked about it but you dont know what will happen while he is gone if he really loves you and cares about you he will tell you when he comes home safely you will discuss it then but not until.Alot could happen while he is gone and if the relationship can with stand him being gone for an undetermined amount of time then you know it will last.Good luck to you both,and i will say a little prayer for him that he comes back home safely
2007-01-10 00:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no! see if you can make it thru this 1st deployment (cuz there will be many more to come). then think about it. are you really prepared to be a military wife? all the moving, waiting around for him to come back. are u 2 used to being away from each other? if your love is strong enough to hold out until he gets back then sure. but not right now!!!
2007-01-10 00:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 14:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by uta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really to be honest this is all dpenedent on your relationship as no two relationshipd are the same. If you both feel its appropriate then i say go ahead, if you dont feel ready then dont do it.
2007-01-10 00:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! Wait until he gets back....
2007-01-10 03:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋