I was completely in love and the next thing i knew, i wasnt so sure any more, and it all happened in a second, i let it be for a few days and decided maybe it was for the best for the time being and finished with him, but by now im already having doubts whether i made a mistake and want to get back together. But i keep constantly changing my mind, im so confused and not a clue what to do. I know the whole "only you can decide" i have had that lecture constantly for the past week. But i could use some help and advice, even better from someone who has experienced something similar!?
2007-01-09 23:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has happened to me on several occasions. I think you first need to analyze what made you decide you weren't sure any more? Was it something you could discuss together and resolve, like the fact that he leaves the top off the toothpase? or something more difficult to resolve? If he's been cheating on you, it's best not to bother trying to get back with him as the situation will come back to haunt you over and over again.... good luck!!
2007-01-09 23:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't change your mind. There is always a reason why you leaving him. Was in the same shoes not so long ago. I was like changing my mind every day. Its bad... there must be something wrong if u r not sure, don't regret your decision, you will find someone with whom u will have no questions at all :-) Good luck and heads up high!
2007-01-10 07:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be unsure, maybe you really are looking for something more or you really just unsure of how you feel. Think about whether you miss the person when they are not there and if you do then obviously you do feel something for the person. Maybe you should try being friends!! have a great day..
2007-01-10 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Roxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not mature enough to be in a relationship. Why not be into yourself. Do things for you for the next six months. Do self improvement for you without thinking about a man.
2007-01-10 07:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First does he wants to get back with you
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-10 07:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-10 07:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by go rockets and Vols!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him stay with him
if not get rid. talk to him, that helps i find
2007-01-10 07:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just be friends with benefits and see what happens...
2007-01-10 07:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋