i told him i anit ready a million times and he says he understand and respects me and has tunred it down a bit ... but i still feel in my hearts of hearts he always wants me for that one thing .....and i think he knows that i really do like him thats y he aint really worried ...am soo confussed
2007-01-09 23:23:29 · 11 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know in your heart of hearts - why are you asking? You've told him how you feel, and he's okay with that. Why look for problems? If he wants you for the one thing that you won't give him - you'll find out soon enough. Stop worrying about something you can't change.
2007-01-09 23:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you're over 16, then you're gaming him. And he's gaming you.
Yeah, he wants to f***. That's how guys are built. And women are built to hold off until they get the signal that he'll stick around to raise the babies. But that's all in the shitter now - what with femme lib and all. Women have declared that they don't need men, so men feel less responsible and are less inclined to raise your baby when it turns out to be half theirs.
Still... sex is fun/good.
So the bottom line is: Are you a tease? A whore? A feminazi? Time to grow up and figure out what.
When you do... you'll know what to do.
(It ain't easy... but you can blame the kunts like Gloria Steininam who said, "A woman needs a man like a fish needs bicycle" --- then went and got married!
2007-01-10 07:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friggin do it. you are holding out and you dont even know why. once you do it you will be glad you did and you will want to do it over and over again. seriously, you are the last person to do it right now. it is possible to have a relationship and *gasp* give the guy what he wants too. i bet he buys you shiny things all the time when you ask him. give and take. on another note: if he sucks at it then why would you wanna wait till later to find out.
2007-01-10 07:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by l337gaurd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your bf show love and respect to you? if not then he is just after for that thing. why not check out his actions towards you, you see if a person trully loves you there is respect, concern and love but if this is not visible in your relationship with him then i guess try to think again, talk to him about it to clear out things between you and him in order for him to know your side if he gets rude about it, give him some room to become a MAN FOR YOU.
2007-01-10 07:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between only wanting you for "one thing" and wanting to do that "one thing" with you.
Boys will be boys and men will be men...they will always push and we will decline till we are ready...thats just the way it is...he should want to that "one thing" with you but not only want you for that.
You need to respect yourself and do only something you feel comfortable...and if he only wants you for that "one thing" then he isnt not worth it and you are better off without him!
good luck!
2007-01-10 07:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by storm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it too much just let it as it is. And dont feel guilty, tell him and let him know that you are saving it for marriage...
2007-01-10 07:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by jennylyn p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... if you feel this you must be right.... because you know better then all what you feel ... is ovious that he need "that thing"...but hwo know.... maybe he likes you enaugh to not dump you after...dunno ... you are the one hwo know what you feel
2007-01-10 07:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by corpsdevorator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, ignore him, do it when you want to an if he keeps pushin he aint worth it so ditch him
2007-01-10 07:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's driven by hormones, all teenage boys are.
2007-01-10 07:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR ((((((NOT)))))) POSTING A PAGE LONG STORY!
dont be so confused .. you'll figure it out in time.
2007-01-10 07:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋