The guy i love has played with my feelings and messed me around,he dumped me by phone and said he just wanted to be friends. I'm so hurt,i havent slept all night,or eaten anything and i've cried none stop. I was thinking about revenge,i kinda like his friend who works in the same office as him. I know his friend might fancy me as he use to make comments about me being stunning,and he invited me and my bf out before to lunch etc but we never ended up going. Should i flirt and see what happens?
2007-01-09 23:22:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. You are just bitter because this idiot hurt your feelings. Don't lower yourself to his level just to get even. Two wrongs do not make a right - and you'll feel even worse afterwards. Just cry it out of your system, and then move on. He isn't worth your time or energy.
2007-01-09 23:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get even with your ex by going out/having arelationship with his colleague/friends? Think again. You might end up as the losing side in the end. You know it's hurt being dump by someone & being fooled is not a good experience too right? So, why take revenge on the innocent party? If you really like the guy then why give the poor guy a change? He might be the one you're looking. After all, to love someone is also a way of taking some risk in invesment. You might end up losing everything or gain unimagine wealth or fortune. Love is also like that don't you agree?
2007-01-09 23:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy and can see yourself with him if he still likes you then yes go for it - but if you dont see yourself with him then I wouldnt as he's the innocent party in all this and it wouldnt be fair to play with his emotions out of spite for your ex.
Also be careful that you're not rushing into things on the rebound hun - you could be just making life awkward for yourself that way.
Take time out to think it through and if you decide this friend of his might be worthwhile then go for it. Good luck babes. xx
2007-01-09 23:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? He dumped you, remember? So get out there and live your life. Don't drag your feet. Show him you are strong willed. Perhaps he will see how much a fool he was and come back to you. Or perhaps not. The point is you need to show yourself how strong you are on the inside.
2007-01-09 23:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by yugitony85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately go for it! Just make sure you look after yourself and mess with this guy as much as you can - I'm sick of guys always getting the upper hand. Hope this helps!
2007-01-09 23:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shoana B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chase away, but be discreet and don't rub the other fella's nose in it or he'll bite back and you'll end up being the office bike (only because he has lied to your colleagues)!!
2007-01-09 23:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it put yourself out there keep your mind of your ex and have some fun while you can, dont think your ex is worth all the trouble of being upset over anyway if he did not have the descency to tell you to your face
good luck and have fun
2007-01-09 23:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by sazhoey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it but keep it quiet you dont want to get a name for being the office bike!!
2007-01-09 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tony Mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pursue the other guy only if you like him, not to spite someone else. The other guy may not be bothered even. Recipe for disaster, if you ask me.
2007-01-09 23:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a clean brake with your dignity intact
you will get over him soon enough
if the friend approach you than go have dinner with him other wise stay away from both
2007-01-09 23:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋