what do you when your boyfriend starts putting pressure on you to have sex?
2007-01-09 23:18:26 · 18 answers · asked by KATEL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the real score here is that DOES YOUR BF TRULLY LOVES YOU? because if he loves you then he will respect you more and will not pressure you to have sex with him. He will understand your feelings. I think the best thing you can do is to talk to him about it, in a place were you and him will not have sex, why not try in the childrens park. then tell him about your feelings, be honest to him about it. do not hide it from him, because maybe he thinks that you still love to have sex with him even if you not.
2007-01-09 23:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im A Male And I Think If A Guy Cares For A Girl He Will Wait Until Your Ready.
2007-01-10 07:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself, "do i want to have sex with this boy?"
if the answer is yes, jump on his unsuspecting *** and ride him like a rodeo show
if no, then sit him down for "the talk".
points to hit on:
you do not feel ready.
YOU DO NOT FEEL READY.
you still trust him and care for him deeply.
you will let him know when you are ready.
stuffing in the words "bear with me" with a dorky smile, and touching his hand somewhere during "the talk" are nice additions.
2007-01-10 07:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he keeps pressuring you then you will have to break up with him.That will calm him down and will not ask you again for a long time.
2007-01-10 07:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Big Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off. You both have to be ready or it won't be special. I gave in to early and it made me feel cheep. Don't give into...
If you love me you won't.... etc.
It's your body and a memory you will never forget. Make sure it's the right time and the right guy. Maybe he ain't it!
2007-01-10 07:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, if he leaves you so much the better. He might be with you only for sex.
2007-01-10 07:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cave in. Sex isn't worth it for a woman unless she's into it.
2007-01-10 07:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Hermione 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he marries you and loves you he can have as much sex as he wants.
2007-01-10 07:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give in if you dont want to do it. and if he keeps putting on the pressure leave him, you might do something you regret
2007-01-10 07:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by jaffarkelshac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raise another issue to create fun and he will forget
2007-01-10 07:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋