why is it when ever a guy says he loves me he dumps me about a week later or in my last 2 cases treat me really well for one night then dumps me the next day why do guys do this?
2007-01-09 23:02:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just gona say i dont sleep with them as soon as they say i love you as everyone thinks
2007-01-09 23:47:24 · update #1
They are probably trying to have sex with you or use "love" as a way for you to put out.
Keep looking, maybe you are dating the wrong kind of guys.
Good luck.
2007-01-09 23:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by yourlordandsavoirjesushchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u joking? if u re u got me. but just in case u re not joking - they wanted only sex, no relationships, after they got what they wanted they do not need u anymore. so try not to have sex so soon not to get hurt. and also i hate to tell u this but maybe u re not good in bed. why didn't u ask any of your former guys why did they lose interest in u? that can be very useful and u have nothing to lose anyway
2007-01-10 07:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you think your doing something wrong, i curious as to why someone is telling u they love u so soon anyway, thast weird my guess there on the rebound from a previous breakup and trying to see how far they can get w/ u, the other is really how far do u go? u nevr wanna kiss or have sex w/ anyone w/ in 2 wks, keep it casusal and freindly go very very slow when getting to know someone tehnexttime someone says they love just say so do i its saying dont waste your time pal i have a ton of respect for myself.
2007-01-10 07:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by tuttifruity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you don't take this bad but probably you are too needy. Try forgetting about relationships for a while and explore yourself. It's wierd I know but when you don't need love it will come to you. Good Luck.
2007-01-10 07:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Village Player 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because,they were playing and you were their doll so next time the boy who loves you is going to be shy to tell you his feelings but, he is going to treat you in the best way he can and he will try to attract your attention.OK!
2007-01-10 07:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by yoya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People use the word " Love" loosely and don't mean it.
Love needs time to grow.
2007-01-10 07:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask yourself this baby girl,,,,,"why do i let guys sleep with me as soon as they say the love word?."
2007-01-10 07:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wjk31092 got it.
As a girl, you should know it already.
But not all guys are like that. So keep looking.
2007-01-10 07:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by yngvih 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=( guys are so heartless sometimes
2007-01-10 07:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by cella<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it`s called SEX......
got it?
2007-01-10 07:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by wjk31092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋