Why is it when a girl complains about how there boyfriend treats them bad, and then confronted by WHY are they still with him they always say 'Cos i love him'. Whats the point of that?
2007-01-09 21:26:13 · 23 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you know? Nice guys don't get laid.
Right from Leykis 101 - Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be an assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
2007-01-09 21:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction mate , woman are not attracted to boring , predictable , nice , clingy wussy boys these badboys are more interesting thats why woman like them the sad truth is woman go of the left " emotional " side of the brain were as the right side of the brain is the " logical " side . Badboys stimulate the emotions were as nice guys are boring and logical ie buying dinners etc i used to be a nice guy but not any more lol , i do crazy adventurous hobbies and im cocky and funny and i tease a woman and make fun of her in a playfull way . So its just the way their wired , nice guys are boys not MEN .
2007-01-10 05:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the there is some age old truth in the saying treat them mean, keep them keen, or it could be that they have become so accustomed to this way of living it is the norm for them, and cannot relate to being treated any other way.
2007-01-10 05:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women put up with alot from men, when they say they love him that does mean they love him, but on the other hand its a cause of being left on the shelf and with noone, some women need a man, pretty desperate really.
feelings are pretty confusing.
men also say it too, its all depends on what they have to put up with if its violence then some women stay out of being scared of the other person or having no self confidence, and depression, some women are not as strong as others and just stay for the sake of it.
heard of the saying better the devil u know, well to me thats what it is.
2007-01-10 05:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Low self esteem. They cling to the only one they think will stick with them. Even badly abused women stay in relationships like that.
It is a bit of mind washing & little self worth ~ it's sad.
~Peace ~
2007-01-10 05:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzylilhippiechick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid.
Apparently, having a verbally and physically abusive significant other is less daunting than the prospect of having absolutely nothing to complain about.
2007-01-10 05:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women go for bad boys.... But dont really want them to be bad..... Then complain when they are.....
2007-01-10 05:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before i was married i went out with a girl who was physically &
mentally abused by her prievious boyfriend, i think she was with him for 5yrs. Our relationship lasted about 6 months, i treated her
like a princess , but she got fed up with me and dumped me and
went back to her prievious boyfriend.??????????????
2007-01-10 06:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bill UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its control but also odds on the girl has no self esteem or self confidence, having been worn down by said boyfriend, trust me when they get far down enough theyll realise- you just have to be there for them when it happens and trust me it will!
2007-01-10 05:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by pinkjessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that my situation right now.... my boyfriend treats me like hell sometimes
but theres those times where both of us are calm, i'm in his arms, and i feel safe for some reason. im truly in love with him, we both just wish we never fight...
2007-01-10 05:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by answer! this 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋