My girlfriend and I get along really well...
But occasionally we have menial arguments about little things, but we just make up at the of the day...Then not long after that, we find something else to argue about....
Is this normal in a relationship? Any suggestions....?
2007-01-09 21:12:51 · 17 answers · asked by armageddon1024 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes its very normal that means u love each other very much and after every fights u feel like coming more and more closer, so dont worry
2007-01-09 21:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting that you say you get along real well then talk about how you argue all the time. I guess they are just small little quarrels over silly things. The best thing to do is to choose your battles and not fight over every little thing. When you fight about everything you are actual;ly fighting about nothing. Pick the things that you feel strongly about to say something about. As far as the small stuff...you need to just let it go without letting it bother you. If you both do this you will find that you are much happier and will get along much better.
2007-01-10 05:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of it is normal, but it sounds like to me, you two have communication issues. Try talking instead of arguing, and be willing to listen to what each of you have to say! Arguing is a direct result of not listening or trying to understand eachother!
2007-01-10 05:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by ??? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for women to argue. They want to dominate all levels of a relationship.
Probably, she only argues when you are at home as her desire for dominance within the four walls is something she can do all day.
2007-01-10 05:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still hoping for a week to go by when me and my girlfriend don't find something to argue about... It's Tuesday night and we haven't argued yet this week.... Oh, I hope we can make it just ONE week without fighting!
2007-01-10 05:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any arguements, there will be no Garam Masala Between friendship. Arguements r the best practice to understand other's opinions.
2007-01-10 05:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by pavan.thummalapalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some arguing is healthy and natural. If you are miserable because you cannot agree on anything, it might be time to take some time apart.
2007-01-10 05:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that in a relation ship u always have to arge its what goin to keep it interesting but as the guy sometimes u have to suck up ur pride n say hey we r goin to make up later any ways so sorry n then thats it some times girls need that to just hear hey its coo u know
2007-01-10 05:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by The Boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me and my husband. Don't worry about it -- we're normal. They are "menial" arguements. If they were arguements about serious things, then I would be concerned.
2007-01-10 05:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by gg55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of relationships dude,its perfectly normal my suggestion get a good sound system for you're house and car and whenever she starts drown out her voice with the music it works for me.
2007-01-10 05:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Badboy007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋