I am a 19 year old girl, but I am only atracted to men that are oldere than me, from 28 to 38, why am I like that is it wrong, I can not get involved with a person of my age, I always feel confortable when I am with older man, please help
2007-01-09 21:10:27 · 12 answers · asked by Girlfriend11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not wrong, and it is very common. Enjoy!
2007-01-09 21:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult so it's cool to date whoever you want and someone up to 30 is not much older. We do, however do a lot of growing (not maturing) in the years between 21 & 30 so I would be a bit curious as to why a man in his 30s is so comfortable with a lady who is not yet 20. Nothing against your maturity but you will see what I mean when you get to 30.. we just change a lot in this time. If a man hasn't changed in that time, I think there may be something a little stunted about him.
2007-01-10 05:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always dated men between 5 and 15 years older than me. I find they are more willing to talk about things, and are much more mature. They have also learnt how to please a woman properly (not meaning to be crass, but experience helps). I think alot of the time it is just if you are more mature than the males your age you relate better to older men. Its just like some younger guys like older women more.
2007-01-10 05:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by BluesPoint_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to be that way, look at ashton keutcher and that....ummm one chic...forgot her name but anyways. Usually lots of girls like to date older guys than their age, rather its for financial security, guys being more mature and serious with relationships, or just for their years of experience on whatever that is. So no you are not alone on this. By the way I'm single, you should message me, lets talk
2007-01-10 05:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were either brought up around older adults and can relate to conversations with older people or you are very mature for your age or your looking for a father-like figure or all three. Good luck!!
2007-01-10 05:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong about having an attraction for older men...because they are mature and responsible...and they can handle a relationship better than younger guys...
and we women like to be babied by older men...i should know coz i married an older guy...my husband is 5 years older than me...we get along well...no regrets
2007-01-10 05:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by willow marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not wrong because we woman grow faster than man and you cant date a man with an empty mind.if the man doesn't influence you to do things you feel you don't want and your on the same level about where your going with life i don't see a problem with that.just remember that man have a brain the size of a peanut
2007-01-10 05:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by nthabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong older men are more mature if u want someone go for it
2007-01-10 05:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are of different taste and preference.....there's nothing wrong upon loving a person having a big age diference from you.....AGE DOESN'T MATTER...learn to accept people of what they are... and you'll find happiness....
2007-01-10 05:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by saudia joy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't met guys like me who don't have the looks but have the rest of the package. (I'm 18)
2007-01-10 05:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Joshua D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋