2007-01-09 21:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by deborahlouiseclarke20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not me im happy with my man its just a general question
2007-01-09 21:26:31 · update #1
You have obviously being dating the wrong guys.
Get yourself together and make them treat you with a bit of respect and don't sleep around until you know them.
2007-01-09 21:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by bluenose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is because men will do pretty much anything for sex. Even sleep with someone they don't actually find that attractive (physically or mentally). However, once you have have sex the desire drops off and you are stuck with the awkward situation of having slept with someone you are not really attracted to.
When you see the girl the next day I don't think most men act like nothing happened out of spite or anything like that. They just don't want to give off any signals that there could be anything more to the relationship.
You have to remember though that women don't have sleep with these guys. Most times this happens it will be one night stands with guys they don't know too well eg someone from work/university. I know this makes me sound like an old man but if you want a longer lasting relationship don't just jump into bed with a man at first time of asking. Date them for a few weeks (at least) first before sex.
2007-01-09 21:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by meet girls? What are these men supposed to act like? I only do that when the girl is garbage and I regret doing what I did. Otherwise he'd be enthused to see the girl again I'd think.
Explain what you're talking about here though. Why would he be seeing you the next day anyway if he's doing what he's supposed to
2007-01-09 21:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Airtight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all women really believe a great deal of connecting and development can actually happen between two people in the space of one evening to the degree that it can substantially change the lives of the people it happened to?
Fair question?
2007-01-09 21:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sick of lads doing that its so childish if they are not interested after they shud just say so and stop being pricks....
like a guy i was with the other night thinks hes gods gift and always ends up coming back to me for more there so not worth it YOU can do much much beta then asses like that every girl can
2007-01-09 21:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats men get used to it chick, when i was growin up always seemed to happen to me too, dont let them use ya my mother always said, and dont drop ur knickers, and it works, make someone wait even if ur dying for it, it shows then men ur not a slag or easy they will have more respect for u for not sleeping with them than if u do.
good luck
2007-01-09 21:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are different types of men. Unfortunately those that are full of bulls.hit can be charming with it and you women fall for it everytime then complain when they dont want to know you. Why should they, you've just proved you're easy meat!!
2007-01-09 21:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean after sex ?I assume yes. Hmm was he drinking? Maybe your meeting the wrong kind of guys?
2007-01-09 21:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are just complete jerks
2007-01-09 21:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by esco275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just dating the wrong guys
2007-01-09 21:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋